how long does it take for he flap to seal/ when can you rub your eyes?
Id be terrified of pulling it off
The quoted figure is 3 months when it is "secure" for you to return to normal life (just dont poke your eye, or get it poked). It is also the time you can stop wearing protective goggles at night (which is to prevent you poking/rubbing in your sleep)...
If you look at many ophthalmologists, they STILL wear glasses/contacts. Also, there is a school of thought that says that the flap never "really" heals fully...