i started out with circulion steal pans which i've still got and have lasted well, i also got a few Anolon hard anodised non-stick pans which are good as well. how ever i find my self slowly moving to using normal pans. why, because i find them easyer to clean, since you dont have to be so careful with them and if i feel lazy i can dishwasher them,
as for knifes, there only one way to buy a knife and that go to a shop and try them, blade wise there very little differents in a good knife on how well the hold a edge, there is a big different in how they feel in your hand, a knife that feels good to me might feel alien to you.
start with a 12" cooks knife
then a 3"/4" utility knife
then a good Sharpening Steel
then buy as u see fit/ can afford