Sperm donor...

D.P. said:
Would be better if like they also hired women, you had to wear a special condom to collect the sperm, and you both had to do it. I think e ver man on the planet would jump at the chance :p

Maybe I'm just fanticizing :o
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Yeh....I can imagine the medical training class for that one.

"On your backs today ladies, we're doing something a little different"
 
AcidHell2 said:
Nothing would make me do it, unless the law is changed. Any children made by your donation can trace you..
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But you cant be held responsible for maintanince or childcare and on top of that most people just wont bond with someone tracking them down after 20yrs...so what's the problem? Like i said before the law is kinda like a good thing IMV.
 
Cybermyk said:
Apparently a lot of people have problems donating. Out of the few that were supposed to attend the London clinic today, two came on the bus and another one missed the tube.
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Hahaha stunning.
 
ElRazur said:
But you cant be held responsible for maintanince or childcare and on top of that most people just wont bond with someone tracking them down after 20yrs...so what's the problem? Like i said before the law is kinda like a good thing IMV.
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Who cares about bonding? Who cares about maintenance or childcare? Its still your child.

The fact that you wouldn't bond is worse. Your child might want you to bond with them, and you can't... What if your child has been orphaned? Do you turn them away?
 
ElRazur said:
But you cant be held responsible for maintanince or childcare and on top of that most people just wont bond with someone tracking them down after 20yrs...so what's the problem? Like i said before the law is kinda like a good thing IMV.
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why, can you imagine how you wife would feel, if 20 years after you marry you get 4 kids turning up saying your my dad. Maintanace or not, it's a bad idea.
 
Le_Petit_Lapin said:
Sperm donation

Sperm donation may not be your first choice for a future career but it is an easy way to make some quick money. You have to be fit, under the age of 40, able to perform when you walk into the clinic and have healthy sperm. But if none of those present a hurdle then you can pick up about £25 for each deposit.


Easy Money rating: 9/10 (Most guys do it for free anyway)


How to get involved: If you are a uni-student check out the medical faculty notice board, sperm banks often advertise there. Alternatively check out the yellow pages or the internet for a sperm bank or fertility clinic in your area.
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For £25 a shot i could really make some money to buy a nice dell 24'' :D
Am young and can keep going forever. Am sure that I could manage 3 shots a day for a year. That would be a lot of money £75x365=£27375 :D

D.P. said:
Would be better if like they also hired women, you had to wear a special condom to collect the sperm, and you both had to do it. I think e ver man on the planet would jump at the chance :p
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good point ;)
 
Gilly said:
Who cares about bonding? Who cares about maintenance or childcare? Its still your child.

The fact that you wouldn't bond is worse. Your child might want you to bond with them, and you can't... What if your child has been orphaned? Do you turn them away?
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Lets look at things this way - If we go back in time right, you did a favour by donating your sperm, whoever carried the baby would *potentially* have a partner. The kid will at one stage or the other bond with someone else and if they dont (which i most likely doubt) and then decide to track you down (lets say 18years on) at this stage, IMV their wouldnt be much one can do and im sure the child will understand the consequences invole.
Perhaps all the child want is just to know the biological dad and no more? ( i would think that will be the case if it happens)

As for the rest of your question, you cant be forced to bond with someone you dont wanna bond with no matter how much emotions is involve. We tend to think of the worst case scenario here but what if the kid is the next prime minster and what to know who is dad is or the next biggest thing since MJ and Tupac.....are you gonna deny him/her that?
 
AcidHell2 said:
why, can you imagine how you wife would feel, if 20 years after you marry you get 4 kids turning up saying your my dad. Maintanace or not, it's a bad idea.
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Im sure ther are rules in place to avoid unplanned visitations at the donors house. Ask yourself, if you are a child from such scheme, would you be asking what you are saying tonight?
 
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ElRazur said:
Im sure ther are rules in place to make to avoid unplanned visitations at the donors house. Ask yourself, if you are a child from such scheme, would you asking what you are saying tonight?
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No there is not, the children now have access to files to track you down. From then on there is no law on just turning up2 your house and knocking. The only thing you could do is get an injunction against them. I think you are missing the bigger picture. The change in the law is the reason no one wants to donate anymore.
 
ElRazur said:
...because that's what you seem to be worried about (see your first post or so and you later post)
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Do you know what bonding means? :confused: I haven't mentioned nor alluded to bonding anywhere...
 
Gilly said:
Do you know what bonding means? :confused: I haven't mentioned nor alluded to bonding anywhere...
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Yeah i do.
I was reffering to this

Gilly said:
No, I wouldn't develop a bond - and I wouldn't want to, thats the point!...
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Gilly said:
The fact that you wouldn't bond is worse. Your child might want you to bond with them, and you can't... What if your child has been orphaned? Do you turn them away?
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Unless im reading it wrong. :)
 
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