split with gf after 4yrs

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Seen a few break up threads recently must be that time of year, mine is complicated story that GD may or may not be able to help me with but anyway here it is

We are both full time carers and met on the internet 4 years ago, things went alright for the first year and a half then things like needy issues insecurity and the likes started popping up we went from best friends to arguing a lot.

from there it just went downhill, we had a small break but I was silly and missed her so over time we got back together the only issue there is she has Epilepsy and was taking a medication for it which didn't effect her moods much then she had a small seizure and the Dr put her on Keppra the side effect list was HUGE and it noticeably made her more angry , irritable and just a pain to deal with but I tried to stick by her it wasn't her fault.

Two days ago my patience broke after another week of useless arguments and I broke it off with her for a multitude of reasons IE: It's been effecting my work and sleep pattern, causing me stress, not been feeling happy in the relationship for a while now etc

Then yesterday she hits me with a bomb!
She was here a week ago and we had a nice enough time but she's been feeling sick ever since in the morning :eek: she is on the pill and has an implant in her arm so the possibility is extremely remote but it's still a possibility she is pregnant coincidentally Keppra can effect birth control slightly

So that's that really, I'm single and happier feeling like a weight has been lifted but there is a small chance I will be tied to her for life. Having never had a father around not being around myself for a child would be a big no!

Lay it on me GD and cheer me up, would like to stress I'm not after pity but any words of advice would be appreciated
 
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Either she's a drama queen or she's been pregnant for ages, or she's even more crazy and using it as an excuse to keep you hanging around.
 
Yeah, given the stress you're under etc it's even less likely your swimmers are working as they should. Poor buggers are probably just going round in circles!
 
Let's hope it's one of the above mentioned posts , although I hope me swimmers are okay ;)

I did go buy an easter egg it was delicious
 
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4 years... that sucks, but I say enjoy the single life for a bit. Easier said than done I imagine. You'll save a bit of money, and if I've read your sig correctly (no SSD), go get yourself an SSD :-)
 
If she's up the duff, it's either someone else's kid or your fishies are ridiculously strong to overcome not one but two forms of contraception.

I'm personally leaning towards the third door, "she's nuts and is trying to snag you".
 
Look, if she is pregnant and the baby is yours you HAVE to be a good father! You have to stand by your child whatever!

If not, move on and count yourself lucky. Your life partner is only around a corner waiting for you. Its up to you to find the right corner!! Good luck my friend
 
Unlucky dude, don't lose hope though you never know as your next partner could be just around the corner.

Occupy yourself with things/friends and try doing things like re-arranging the furniture at your place so memories don't come back.

Good luck
 
Girl here.

She's fibbing if she says she has the implant and the pill. There is no possible reason for her using those two methods of contraception at the same time.

Do not have sex with her again, chances are she's trying to now trap you since you broke up with her. Ask her to pee on a stick in front of you. Bet she won't.
 
As above - sounds ridiculous about the pregnancy but get her to go to the doctors and get it checked properly.

Have you seen the positive pregnancy test stick etc?

Also - there is no WAY she has both types of contraceptives at the same time - that is absolutely not true. You either have one or the other, NEVER both at the same time.
 
Here you go. She's lying. Google is your friend.

Finally, there are "neutral" drugs which don't have any effect on hormone breakdown. Gabapentin (Neurontin), lamotrigine (Lamictal), levetiracetam (Keppra), clobazam, clonazepam, ethosuximide, Lyrica, sodium valproate, Zonegran, and tiagabine (Gabitril) will not interfere with your birth control
 
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4 years... that sucks, but I say enjoy the single life for a bit. Easier said than done I imagine. You'll save a bit of money, and if I've read your sig correctly (no SSD), go get yourself an SSD :-)
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Have an SSD but looking into another one

As for trapping me, I don't think shes like that and there is legit reasons she needs both forms of contraceptive due to her epilepsy but you never know what someone may be really like till they lose you

Thank you for the kind words though people it's uplifting
 
My GF has epilepsy and takes kepra and another drug. She told me from day one that her medication affects birth control and the effectiveness of the pill. Basically it renders it a no-no as a reliable form of contraception. Simple as that.
 
How similar is this to one of my crazy internet bitches....
Run away man, run far away from the mentalist.

Did she give you the "I've done the test and everything" line too!

Mine tried that on the day she was supposed to come on "I'm late, I must be, look at this blue line god damn it"

Away with it man..

Reference info from NHS choices website...
You can do a pregnancy test from the first day of your missed period.
If you have regular periods, you’ll probably know when this is.

If you’re not sure when your next period is due, you can do a pregnancy test 21 days (three weeks) after you last had unprotected sex.
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Go watch Fast 7. You will forget your gf and start crying over Paul Walker. Win win.
 
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