Stuck in a rut

stuie

stuie

stuie

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Ive come to realise im bored / lonely / disgruntled and in need of advice.

My week

Monday to Friday

Alarm goes off at 7
Shower, breakfast.
Leave for work by 8
Get back at half 5
Walk dog
Eat
Watch tv or fire up the pc to play tf2 / borderlands with a couple of mate
Bed

Saturday
Golf
House Work

Sunday
Lay in
more housework

Rince and repeat 52 times


Since buying my house and moving in last september that's basically it with the exception of the odd weekend where theres a birthday or similar do. I'm single and have been for 18months turning 30 in 6 weeks time and with the exception of joining a gym that hasnt opened yet thats it.

I feel like my life is stagnating I don't have a massive group of friends nor the want to lose my sundays with a hangover, holidays arnt really possible partly financial reasons partly because ive got a dog.

At 30 life has got to be more exciting than this hasnt it?
 
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stuie said:
At 30 life has got to be more exciting than this hasnt it?
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Why should it be? If you're comparing it to what you think others are doing... most of them are doing exactly the same thing. And if you're comparing how you spend your free time to what you think people are getting up to in their free time on Facebook, they're very selective of what they upload to their Facebook because they want people to believe their life is not exactly the same at 30.
 
To be honest my life reads like that minus the fun gaming eves with friends and the dog, although +1GF and slightly more weekend activities.

I'd say you're looking at a pretty standard 21st century life.

Have you considered moving somewhere more dynamic? Overseas perhaps? What about starting a few other hobbies or a creative project?
 
How exactly are you losing your Sunday to a hangover if you don't seem to do anything with your Sunday? :p
 
Alarm goes off at 6:30
Get kids ready for school
Shower, dress
Leave for work by 7:45
Drop kids off at school
Work.
Leave work ~6ish
Pick up shopping
Cook dinner
(Wife does kids homework with them)
Get kids ready for bed
Bath baby
Wash up/ feed baby (we alternate between us)
Start more work
Watch tv/ fall asleep
Bed

Repeat x 5. You can do loads more. Do what you want. What do you want to do? New hobby?
 
lol exactly just do what you want.....

Its a silly thread.

You can do ANYTHING you want....
 
stuie said:
At 30 life has got to be more exciting than this hasnt it?
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Mate, it's not going to fall out the sky and slap excitement round your miserable chops. Destiny = your call. Make something exciting happen or it won't. Waiting for it will just mean you waste the only life you have, then you'll be dead.
 
Im not saying life is bad.

Moving to a different area or country isnt an option Ive just bought my first house moving isnt really practical also again Im not going to just ditch the dog.

I was kinda hoping for some ideas or suggestions to shake things up a bit rather than the response of stop being a whiny little bitch but i guess i was expecting too much.
 
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