Suggestions on what to do - my best mates girlfriend - longish

custom1 said:
At this point couldn't you have butted in and said the trip was only for 4 people and that the 4th would have been your gf, thus saving any bad feelings.

Anyway as it's happened now, my guess would be to ask Neil if he wouldn't mind not going seeing as 1) you didn't formally invite him and 2) there isn't room for his gf.

As for the upset with Neils gf i'd let Neil sort it out as it would seem he might be the one who told her about the comment, and that it wasn't you who said it.

Hope that helps.
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na i work my mates goto 6th form

yeh thanks that does help, im just gonna leave it for now and maybe try speaking to her tomorrow if she doesnt want to no me, to be honest it doesnt bother me
 
Phate said:
na i work my mates goto 6th form

yeh thanks that does help, im just gonna leave it for now and maybe try speaking to her tomorrow if she doesnt want to no me, to be honest it doesnt bother me
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Oh i see, well in that case your damned if you do and damned if you dont, if she wants to throw her dummy out the pram let her, it's not your fault; she will soon learn the truth and will come back with her tail between her legs.
 
Phate said:
i dont think this has anything to do with it but for my 18th mums paying for a 4person shalley at centerparcs for me and who i chose, now instantly i chose gareth and guvern and the 4th person i would leave open for my girlfriend (providing im still with her) and gareth didnt no this so at school gareth asked neil if he wanted to come to centerparcs now i said he would have to come without sarah and neil asked gareth why, and gareth said (as a joke and partially true) he doesnt want her to come.
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I really am struggling to understand what you have written..... but isn't a 4 person shalley for 4 people?

Phate, gareth and guvern + Phates GF = 4 people

Hence gareth shouldn't have asked neil as 4 was already sorted, but if your GF wasn't going then neil would have been number 4 anyway so no room for neils GF - no problem just say there's no room

Is sarah actually your friend or is she just your best mates GF?
 
Whenever I've got one of those texts, I just laught it off to their face and go 'what the hell?' to their faces. Just speak chirpy to them in real life and they wont know what to do. Try it :)
 
Attention whore. Best thing to do is simply say to her: Sorry if I upset you. Don't hang around, don't get sucked into txt wars or anything. If you reply to her in any way other than a quick sorry, I guarentee you this will happen again.
 
This seems like a very serious problem, one which could take a long time to remedy. I wish you all the best. Sometimes I thank the high heavens that my problems rarely become as complicated as ones like this.
 
Text her saying that you're sorry if you upset her, there are only 4 spaces available on this trip so it's not personal and when she is ready to talk about it rationally you'll be waiting. :)

Then it's up to her to get in touch and basically, get over it! :p
 
"care to explain why u were bitching about me, ** not a girl there isnt an excuse n i dont expect fake friends so no i feel no need to explain myself to u"
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i'd say this... "care to explian this...." *Karate Chops her in the neck*

*dusts off hands...

*walks Off..

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Failing That Slap Her In Her Eyes...

/aggressive mode off
 
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Why the hell does her opinions matter to you, Phate?

From what I understand, she isn't your girlfrield. Stuff her. Tell her to f-off and stop texting you.
 
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