Taking a girl to dinner, but not a date?

Matt-Page said:
With that attitude regarding leagues nothing is ever going to happen. Girls like men with confidence and a positive attitude, your already starting off on the wrong foot, like you look up to her and she is too good for you. Wrong!!!! You are who you are, and she should be pleasured to acccompany you out to a freebie dinner.

Just ask her what she is doing on the date, if she says nothing say i have a voucher for some free grub and drinks, fancy joining me? If she makes up an excuse or whatever, just say well the invite is there, and just let me know if you can or not. If she says no then you need to find another bit of skirt to take with you. Don't sound upset or down if she turns you down, take another skirt and show her you are a man in demand and she was foolish to reject you. Then, make attempt number 2 to get her out, if she declines, your done for, forget her and use her as a tissue friend.

May the force be with you!
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yep do this 100%
 
Mat said:
Ya man... dont go out with a loaded gun, y'hear?!
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Haha! But then running on empty is also not good, she will think you don't fancy her much if she sodesn't feel some sort of internal explosion.

Also, don't go eating loads of carbs or you will be too full for bedroom gymnastics. Same goes for her, you don't want a porker!
 
geeza said:
Ive got a free drinks and meal voucher at my gym that i have to use by 30th this month. I dont really want to go by myself because i will look like a loner (and greedy) Neither do i want to go with a lad mate because it might look quite gay just two of us going. Therefore im considering taking a girl

Ive recently been getting better mates with her and i find it easy to talk to her. Plus she is extremely hot (way out my league) If she wanted anything to happen of course i would accept (after asking mate first, which ill come to in a min) If she didnt want anything to happen theres a chance i would be less of a friend to her which might bodge up nights out because her good mate is involved with one of my mates.

Another of my mates used to go out with her and he is over her but im not too sure she is properly over him.

Good idea to take a girl thats your friend out for a meal or not?
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Seriously it's quite alright to take a girl to dinner. It's a meal for god sake your not propositioning her.

I go out to dinner quite a lot with girls that I'm not really looking for anything with.

Davem
 
Just go with a guy mate?

I dont see how going for a pub lunch is any different, its food, you need food, you need you use your voucher.

KaHn
 
Not trying to sound like I'm takign the **** but it worries me you're asking the internet for advice on this one...

I go out for dinner with friends loads, i wouldn't think anything of going for dinner with a girl who's just a friend. There's been times where I've turned up at a place with a friend and asked for a table for two and got given some candlelit corner and it's never been awkward, just a bit of a laugh...

Just chill out and go for dinner, don't worry about it, because if you do it'll blatently show
 
geeza said:
if shes not honoured, ill eat her food when she goes to the toilet and do a runner!
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If she isn't honoured she wont go with you, if she goes with you, remember you ARE THE MAN! and be as genuine and friendly as possible. No doubt she is the same as most other woman in the world and think her troubles are far greater than everyone elses. You will prbably already know what she does (Work/Student) So ask her how it is going, try to relate to her and ask a question relating to it, it shows you are knowledgeable and are showing an intrest. Ask her what music she likes, and try to relate to that, or reference a few songs. Ask her what her friends are like, etc.

Best thing is to let them do the talking, you listen and say "Oh", "Ehum" "Oh really" etc at different points of the conversation. Show sympathy and empathy. By the time she night is finished, she will no doubt appologise and feel bad for talking to much, tell her she is being silly and you enjoyed spending the evening with someone who had something to say. Tell her you want to meet up again next week, etc.

Talk a bit about yourself but don't bore her with your new GFX card, X-Box game and the footy results.

Oh one other thing, beam your eyes at her, when she shows up and tell her she looks stunning. Say no more and walk with her, she will obviously deny it and say her hair is too greasy or some crap, just repeat your statement, smile and walk on.
 
bigredshark said:
Not trying to sound like I'm takign the **** but it worries me you're asking the internet for advice on this one...

I go out for dinner with friends loads, i wouldn't think anything of going for dinner with a girl who's just a friend. There's been times where I've turned up at a place with a friend and asked for a table for two and got given some candlelit corner and it's never been awkward, just a bit of a laugh...

Just chill out and go for dinner, don't worry about it, because if you do it'll blatently show
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You have fiberoptics in your sig, your good at networking! :p

No, seriously, many people worry about this, and asking your mates will get you laughed at all the way there, where you will already feel like a pleb and inadequate. Not everyone is as ruthlessly handsome and popular as you! :p
 
Girls respond to emotions over integers. You can talk about how great your last overclock was, but don't tell her you "overclocked a Q6600 to 3.4ghz". Rather, tell her you "tirelessly worked to achieve the most out of a component you purchased, and were delighted when you managed to complete your feat".

When you talk passionately about any subject, and inject emotion rather than facts/numbers...girls respond. I kid thee not.
 
twistedheat said:
Girls respond to emotions over integers. You can talk about how great your last overclock was, but don't tell her you "overclocked a Q6600 to 3.4ghz". Rather, tell her you "tirelessly worked to achieve the most out of a component you purchased, and were delighted when you managed to complete your feat".

When you talk passionately about any subject, and inject emotion rather than facts/numbers...girls respond. I kid thee not.
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Yea, and don't forget to take an interest in her!!!
 
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