Taking stuff that isnt yours

You sir, are what is wrong with society. When you lost your items would it not have been brilliant if someone had had the decency to return them to you or hand them in?

I always hand in anything I find... within the last year that's been a Nokia N95...I phoned the last dialled number and told them that I had this persons phone, a wallet full of cash which I handed in and a handbag.. I'm sure there were a couple more things but I can't remember right now..

What comes around, goes around..

You find a lot of stuff. All I've found in the last year or so is a wallet. I saw the guy who dropped it, but he was running quickly and was long gone before I'd walked up the road to where he was and saw what had fallen out of his pocket. I don't know what was in it - I just took it to the nearby police station. They opened it, found contact information from his driving licence and returned it to him.

Here's a lesson for the OP: I didn't leave my details at the police station. I didn't hand the wallet in to get anything from the person who dropped it. I handed it in because I'm not a thief.
 
I liked the "Theft by finding" part.

That really doesnt make sense to me :confused: :p

What's confusing about it?

Theft is taking something you know you don't have a right to take. Take it from a floor, take it from a pocket, take it from the seat of a car...where you take it from doesn't alter the fact that you've taken it.
 
What's confusing about it?

Theft is taking something you know you don't have a right to take. Take it from a floor, take it from a pocket, take it from the seat of a car...where you take it from doesn't alter the fact that you've taken it.

so whats the didfference of finding a 100 year old gold coin?
 
so whats the didfference of finding a 100 year old gold coin?

The owner is almost certainly dead. But if I found a 100 year old gold coin, I'd make a reasonable attempt to return it to the owner.

I do make a distinction between minor amounts of loose cash and other items. For example, if I found a tenner in the street without any way of knowing who it belongs to, I'd keep it. If I found it in a building, I'd hand it in - the owner might contact the place and ask if it's been found.
 
I'm surprised at the reaction of some people on here towards Guest2's comments. This is what most people in life are like! Then again, perhaps I shouldn't be that surprised. Sometimes I forget which forum I am on.

Do you really think most people are like that? You must hang out with the wrong type of people. I don't know anyone who'd keep expensive things they found. Or maybe I just hang out in different circles to you then - this is a revelation to me - despite living in London!
 
If I find small cash (£10-20) then I will keep as it will be hard to return.

If the cash sum is large (>£100 ) then it goes to the police station. remember, if no one cliams it it is yours anyway.

Any items are taken to the police. While waiting fo a train yesterday some guys next to me found a bag with a macbook pro, wallet and phone. They started calling numbers etc. After 10 minutes, some girl comes running down the platform in hyterics, crying and distraught. She was sure glad when she found it.
 
If I were to find a small amount of cash on the ground (say a £10 note) with no-one around then I'd probably just keep it as there would be no way to (a) trace the owner or (b) for them to prove ownership if it was handed in.

Anything else I'd hand in (including cash in wallets). I live right by a large police station and have to walk past it twice a day anyway so it's not going out of my way to hand it in.

If I'm somewhere else ... then I'll be staying at a hotel so will be able to ask where the Police Station is.
 
Absolutely. If I saw someone drop some money I'd give it back to them. If I saw a £10 note on the floor with no way of tracing the owner it'd be hard to prove to whom it belonged. I may donate it to charity though which feels like the right thing to do in said circumstance.
 
In one year I found 3 wallets.

One in Ikea car park. I spotted it in the road whilst parking up, as I drove passed I stopped, opened the door and picked it up much to the amusement of my friend who didn't initially spot it.

We rifled through the wallet and there was a NHS ID card. Asked in Ikea for a tannoy announcement for the name, they wouldn't do it ?! so I kept it and was going to call the NHS H&R dept up. However, spotted a woman in Ikea who looked like the photo ID so asked if she lost her wallet. Queue panic and "woman flapping", I then asked what the wallet looked like, she described it and I told her to be more careful and not to write her PIN's down and store them in the wallet!

I found a wallet in Cyprus, plain black leather. All that was in it was £90 Cypriot. Good times. A piece of paper with a name on, I asked at my hotel (found the wallet up the road from the hotel) if there was a guest with that name and they said no. Good times.

Another I found was in the Trafford Centre, handed that one in to the Customer Service dept. there. So near to Christmas I wasn't about to ruin it for someone.

Don't think Karma has come around yet but I'm patient.
 
Do you really think most people are like that? You must hang out with the wrong type of people. I don't know anyone who'd keep expensive things they found. Or maybe I just hang out in different circles to you then - this is a revelation to me - despite living in London!

I didn't say I "hang out" with this type of person but it is naive to think that the majority of people in this country are as honest as the people in this thread. Consider all the chav scum in this country, none of them would hand anything in and that's a big chunk of the popluation right there.
 
I'd consider most people on this forum to be that of a more fortunate background, better educated and living by a higher moral code than the "scum" that you talk about. I think humans in general a kind and moral people, however there are many that have lost their way or not given a chance in life to learn what it is to be a good person.

It's a shame you wont' believe that the majority of the people here were being genuine - I have no reason to doubt them and find it pleasing that there is some honour and morality around in this dark world we sometimes live in.

I'm not trying to be morally superior, or a better human being by doing these things, I just think its' a staple of humanity, that we offer kindness, honesty and trust in those around us. Sure, in this day and age it would be naïve to just expect such deeds - furthermore I'd consider myself rather streetwise and worldly wise down to my fortuitous life and experiences, and as such ensure that I'm not conned or disappointed by my fellow human being.

However just because there are people that would step over your dying body to catch their bus, doesn't mean that you should be the lowest denominator yourself. I'm not naïve in the way of the world, and in the industry I work in, although I'd love to have faith in everyone around me, I do often cast a cynical eye on certain things - it's the nature of the beast.

However we're not analysing the nation or the world as a whole, we're analysing a simple action of returning someone's property or at least handing it in so that the chance of them being re-united with it is increased. I know the world is a cuddy place sometimes, but it doesn't mean we have to succumb to it, even a small gesture like this in my eyes is enough to restore my faith that we're not all bad.

I may sound wishy washy, I may well be... however I have yet to been conned, tricked or screwed over by my actions, and nonetheless I know that I've done the right thing within myself. :)
 
I lost my coat once, it contained my keys, money all sorts, it fell offf the pram and I never even noticed until I got to my front door and didn't have my keys. I then got a call from Tesco telling me someone had found my coat and gave me a number to ring. It turned out the woman that found it had seen the points card fob and called them up and given her number. She got a big bunch of flowers and some money for her trouble and honesty, I was touched someone went to so much trouble.

However as much as now I tend to hand things in, there was a time when I was trully on the bones of my bum and wouldn't of hesitated pocketing any money I found. I think it depends on circumstances, though looking back it was wrong.
 
Lol unlucky, well lucky that you got it back at least I guess.

If my phone got lost I'd send a txt with a special word that would activate GPS and then message me back its current location.

As long as it was turned on I would be able to see where it was ¬_¬

Android ***!
what app?
 
This may have been covered previously in this thread but what are people's opinions of being given incorrect change in your favour? Yesterday I went into a well known chain of burger restaurants and instead of being given £1 change, I was given a tenner. I immediately noticed the cashiers mistake, but failed to tell her and walked away with it.

Had this have been her own cash or personal belongings, I would immediately told her, but I don't feel guilty for taking advantage of her mistake because the money was the company's. Would other people have done the same?
 
Ive left my wallet on a bus before and to my surprise £50 was still in it when i collected it from the depot.

I found a Appointment diary on a train, called what i assumed to be a home number and arranged to return it. Guy asked me for my address and he sent me a bottle of whiskey, which was nice.
 
This may have been covered previously in this thread but what are people's opinions of being given incorrect change in your favour? Yesterday I went into a well known chain of burger restaurants and instead of being given £1 change, I was given a tenner. I immediately noticed the cashiers mistake, but failed to tell her and walked away with it.

Had this have been her own cash or personal belongings, I would immediately told her, but I don't feel guilty for taking advantage of her mistake because the money was the company's. Would other people have done the same?

u have no problem with that at all ;)
 
This may have been covered previously in this thread but what are people's opinions of being given incorrect change in your favour? Yesterday I went into a well known chain of burger restaurants and instead of being given £1 change, I was given a tenner. I immediately noticed the cashiers mistake, but failed to tell her and walked away with it.

Had this have been her own cash or personal belongings, I would immediately told her, but I don't feel guilty for taking advantage of her mistake because the money was the company's. Would other people have done the same?

No, for two reasons:

i) I am not a thief.
ii) I know that staff are held responsible for cash handling mistakes. Maybe she was subject to the company's disciplinary procedure because of you. If she'd made other mistakes, maybe she lost her job because of it.
 
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