Tall, dark and handsome?

Toxic Babyface said:
Thanks LordSplodge. I think this is the problem I have currently... I can't help but see myself as somebody who will never be able to get a decent girlfriend.
I must learn to overcome this I guess :)
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You have.. Self confidence is above all else the most important aspect. Never think you'll not get that girl.

you have to be sure of yourself, girls can smell lack of confidence like dung stuck to a stick..!!

Forget about how you look, just be sure to dress up what you have and be yourself and be sure of yourself.. Some good rags, a clean or semi rugged look will go someway but self confidence will take you further then how tall or good looking you are.
 
Saytan said:
an ugly man can always muscle up. an ugly girl does not have this advantage, and as such, has to resort to sluttiness.
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:p although also heard a fat lass can lose weight and be a stunner and have a fantastic personality to go with it...

Seen this for real to be honest.. Current girlfriend was a bit chubby shall we say and got a bit bigger as we were dating. Had an amazing personality though… Last year she started to lose weight, and didn’t stop till she dropped from a rather large 20 right down to a very respectable curvy 14. Still got the same personality and now looks amazing..

Anyhow, digress being ugly won’t hold you back getting someone. Lacking confidence however will.
 
Stop being such a pushover.

Seriously if you don't imagine what you can get rather than what you cannot then you'll always get crapped on.
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Well I am not as bad as I used to be lol

But you are right.

Also just starting to have a read of that Arnie link you quoted. Thanks :)
 
Haha! It was slightly tongue in cheek (and you do realise I'm 1/2 French yeah?! :p), it can land you into hot water especially if you've got an insatiable appetite for women, and flirting and women... :o It's fun in the most part, but it's not a very good way to be for a "stable" relationship.
 
Freefaller said:
Haha! It was slightly tongue in cheek (and you do realise I'm 1/2 French yeah?! :p), it can land you into hot water especially if you've got an insatiable appetite for women, and flirting and women... :o It's fun in the most part, but it's not a very good way to be for a "stable" relationship.
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What's the other half? Bear? :p
 
Freefaller said:
Haha! It was slightly tongue in cheek (and you do realise I'm 1/2 French yeah?! :p), it can land you into hot water especially if you've got an insatiable appetite for men, and flirting and men... :o It's fun in the most part, but it's not a very good way to be for a "stable" relationship.
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LordSplodge said:
What's the other half? Bear? :p
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LOL! Possibly, but that's just the wild side they're after! ;)

Toxic Babyface said:
Lol
Well it must be the accent that gets the girl's flocking to him :p
French is the language of love is it not? :)
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I sound awfully well spoken and not French at all! However, I'm one of these irritating "chat to anyone" people, and one of these annoying "done many things in my life and have lots of life experiences" sort of person.


Facetious comments aside, not all men are after tall dark and handsome, so don't get hooked up on it. Personality, humour and intelligence are powerful allies - furthermore, some women like blonde men too! haha! :D

Don't get hooked up on what the stereotypes say, be yourself, and be confident in yourself and don't try and be someone that you're not. :)
 
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