Thanks dad

Sorry to hear about your loss dude. Well done for staying so strong in the face of such a difficult time.

Edit: Just wanted to say man, I'm glad you got to say your goodbyes. It's not quite the same but my grandfather died before Christmas and I wish I'd visited him that one last time before I went off to uni.
 
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Lost my dad to a brain tumour when I was 22 so I know exactly what you are going through..
You will feel a whole range of emotions, numb at first, devastated later, and guilty over enjoying anything for a while and along with that huge hole in your life, you are in for a rough time.
Just get through it however you can and remember that is what families are for, take all the help you can as it will be bad once this really sinks in.
And please, look after your mum, she will be lost for a while, and being around will help her so much as she will facing all sorts of hell and will need you and your brother more than you realise.
You dad may be gone, but he still lives through you and your brother, you are both half him if you get my meaning, be proud of that, as it will be a comfort to you in the dark days ahead..

Our condolences to you all..
 
Posts like this really pull at the heartstrings. Could never imagine what it must be like. Stay strong and use the good memories to push on in life :)
 
Woah how sad! :(

Can't begin to imagine what you're going through. You have my thoughts and condolences.

Focus on the "good" family time you had together at Christmas, and at least he is no longer suffering. I know it doesn't really help :(

Take care, and hope that your family stay strong together through all of this.
 
My dad died two years ago of a random heart attack when I was 19, he was in his early 40's. I know how it feels.

Dad's are the brilliant:


I was older (read that as between the ages of 8 and 19) but my dad use to do this in his Subaru Imprezza, on his motorbikes and in his Audi RS6.
 
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I lost my mum to cancer less than a year ago. 47years old (!)

If you feel you want to discuss anything don't be shy to email me, I pretty much know where you're at right now :(
 
Really sorry for your loss.

Lost my granddad to cancer 7 months ago but I could never imagine losing my Dad.

Sounds like you at least had time to let your dad know how you feel and say goodbye.

As others have said, focus on the positives and we (this community) are always here.
 
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