Soldato
Meh. If you can't handle discussion about your life, don't post about it.
Classic denial attitude though. Good luck!!!
Classic denial attitude though. Good luck!!!
Welcome to ignore @RoboCod. I told you you have no idea what my parents want or think or what their attitudes to me living at home are.
Why bother? The guy evidently has a problem facing up to truths and clearly has some personal mental issues he needs to overcome, all the while leaching off the parents and justifying it to himself. He appears beyond help and without any urge to take responsibility for himself.Do they not want you to/hope that you'd eventually move out and start a family of your own etc...?
I get that landlords are evil etc.. but I do wonder if in a decade or two you might consider retrospectively that paying rent for a couple of years or so might have been worthwhile if it got you into the career you wanted and allowed you to get your own place, settle down etc..etc..
Without mentioning my parents any more (please), let me just ask you.
Is it a good thing to struggle... I mean really struggle at some point in your life?
Let's say for argument's sake, that the amount I earn means I would have nothing left after paying rent and living costs. Be unable to save anything and probably have to sell my car, etc.
Is that going to make me happy (clearly not), or is the idea that it's character building to have nothing and no one and be at complete rock-bottom for a while? That it does a person good?
People live at home (increasingly) because the alternative is to barely be able to exist.
Is everybody here so middle-class that struggling to exist isn't something they could possibly understand? Or maybe everybody is coupled off so don't understand just having a single income? And not a great one at that?
Depends entirely on the end goal.Is it a good thing to struggle... I mean really struggle at some point in your life?
Without mentioning my parents any more (please), let me just ask you.
Is it a good thing to struggle... I mean really struggle at some point in your life?
Let's say for argument's sake, that the amount I earn means I would have nothing left after paying rent and living costs. Be unable to save anything and probably have to sell my car, etc.
Is that going to make me happy (clearly not), or is the idea that it's character building to have nothing and no one and be at complete rock-bottom for a while? That it does a person good?
Bear in mind I didn't bump this thread. That was those of you who wanted answers about my current situation. I should probably have stayed well enough away from it.I'm not suggesting you move out and go to some other location in order to push trollies around Tesco car park or to flip burgers etc... I thought the point of the thread was that you'd want to start a new career, if you're in a location where there are fewer opportunities then it would seem sensible to be open to moving around in order to initiate a career (especially when you're single and in position where you're not tied down to a single place by a mortgage, family etc...).
Then once you've established yourself in a career perhaps you can either move back to where your parents live or indeed settle down/buy a place in some nearby county - especially if you've already got the deposit for a house available.
Why bother? The guy evidently has a problem facing up to truths and clearly has some personal mental issues he needs to overcome, all the while leaching off the parents and justifying it to himself. He appears beyond help and without any urge to take responsibility for himself.
Is it a good thing to struggle... I mean really struggle at some point in your life?
Bear in mind I didn't bump this thread. That was those of you who wanted answers about my current situation. I should probably have stayed well enough away from it.
Tbh the more I think about it the more the future appears bleak and hopeless. This world we've created weeds out people like me. You've got to be smart, strong-willed, resilient and I'm none of those.
I've kind of given up really. It is what it is. Life is tough, I'm not able to deal. The end.
He's a well-known white supremacist, and you should be ashamed to promote him. What is wrong with you?In what way does he help them become fascist thugs, how is getting your life in order and prioritising what you want in life and starting with small things like tidying your room fascist?
Because I was merely discussing his situation and gave an opinion that he didn't like. From their he went ultra defensive, called me spiteful and like a petal threw me on ignore, all because he didn't like being told what is obvious.... No parent wants their child living with them when they're hitting on 40yrs old. Foxeye has had years of friendly advice and support, yet the guy still refuses to do anything with his life. This thread is a joke, the arbitrary figure of £50k is telling that he doesn't have a clue what he's doing, yet he seems unwilling to listen to anyone at all who does.Whoa! Take it easy fella, you have no clue about foxy’s shizzles or dizzles, I suspect this is one of those cases where what he’s telling us isn’t nearly as important as what he isn’t telling us. As you say he’s clearly got some baggage so leave him to it, why the attackyface all over his bizzle? No skin off your teeth or mine.
Bear in mind I didn't bump this thread. That was those of you who wanted answers about my current situation. I should probably have stayed well enough away from it.
Tbh the more I think about it the more the future appears bleak and hopeless. This world we've created weeds out people like me. You've got to be smart, strong-willed, resilient and I'm none of those.
I've kind of given up really. It is what it is. Life is tough, I'm not able to deal. The end.
He's a well-known white supremacist, and you should be ashamed to promote him. What is wrong with you?