I use my Phone to take photos of nothing….I think the last photo I took of it was my dad's car's number plate so I can remember it when I get home to do a price comparison search. That's what I use the phone camera for.
I don't use it to show people what I take. The reason being I don't think the standard of them are high enough, and although the phone cameras are alway getting better and better, the other side of the coin is the standard of what is a good photo is also moving higher and higher.
Let's say the latest phone can do what a DSLR can do 10 years ago (with a really cheap lens). but 10 years on, both the phone and DSLR also moved on so the standard are higher and I think with the popularity of Instagram, people's exposure of good photos are also increased so it takes more than an iPhone X or Pixel 2 photo to impress people these days.
What people really want is bokeh, that's why the development of these "portrait" mode, the fake bokeh by software. People think this would give the photo a professional look, a look that can only be achieve with a fast lens, generally an expensive lens. I agree though that these fake bokeh can be quite convincing at a glance but I can tell they are fake, there is no smooth transition in objects in accordance to distance and the edges of subject can be a bit jarring.
I am sure one day it will be good enough though but we are not there yet.
(then there is the last thing, lighting, you can't be knowing how to light your subject, and that is not from where the lens sits, certainly not 5mm away from it)