I only played the demo of Skate, but can see how they have used that style of play. I'm persisting with the face buttons and I'm doing ok (7.5m is my highest score). I just have to remain very concious of what buttons I press when. Its not natural to me yet, but its getting better. I just have a horrible habit of leaving a finger somewhere, either on the stick spinning or on the tweak or something.
As for the whole MP discussion, there are 2 vids in the demo that explain it. There is no live multiplayer race events. Everything is time trials/ghosts. When you play the single player (Explore) you can compete against ghosts of friends. When you play on the Multiplayer (Global Events) you have events setup with rules and post your best score/time in them and then when they finish the money is handed out. You can create you own events for friends, but there is no way to race directly against them. A bit of a shame, but I have gone through SSX, Tricky and SSX3 without any MP at all so I'm sure I will survive.
Right, back to trying to lean these controls.