I just picked up the game a couple of days ago & thats my thoughts exactly. Sometimes as soon as I see an enemy player I'm torn apart. I'd be grateful of help as well with the game. Tried popping on to the OcUK server there but it was full.
Malc, could you explain more about "joining a squad & taking a back seat." I've noticed squad beside where I choose my kit but I've no idea what it's for so have never used it. I've a whole load of questions to throw at you too, I'll try to figure out this xfire chat thing & torture you lot.