Dunno about "incel" so much but I know a lot of people who have actively decided to opt out of relationships now. Male and female for what it's worth. Anecdotes are usually crap evidence but it seems worryingly prevalent to me. I can only see men and women becoming more divided the way things are going.
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The risk vs reward is today insane (quite literally). And that applies to everything from one-off encounters to marriage (or just living together).
Plus society has abandoned all the norms and roles that existed for centuries, in favour of nobody having a clue what they should be or do.
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Who cares about society's dictated roles, just be yourself.
Lol good luck with that. You’ll be called out no matter what you do when dating.
It does seem like it’s a minefied and I’m not even in the dating scene, and I’m glad I’m not.
Why would an "incel" be reporting the thot's, when someone who is actually "involuntarily celibate" is more likely to be someone who's paying fortunes to an e-thot for nude photos? Seems like incel has just become a meaningless insult, thrown around by people who can't actually define it.
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They are incels because they hate that women are "giving sex" to other people and feel that women should be having sex with them.
They basically hate women and this is some form of petty revenge.
They basically hate women and this is some form of petty revenge.
First dates are a real headache now. There's a chance of offending the other person if you offer to pay the bill and a chance of offending them if you want to split. Managed to fall foul of it myself.
As for angry people getting revenge, methinks if they're that frustrated they should just rent by the hour. The "thots" do need to pay taxes though regardless of who shops them.
Surely if we stick to the pure definition of an incel it isn’t something that you can label someone? In fact many of them who identify as incel actually aren’t, they’re just stuck on cesspits like reddit (who eventually banned the subreddit for it I believe) constantly reinforcing their patterns of thought. When I looked into it when the term hit the mainstream media a few months ago, the word Volcel seemed to be taking over so I think they had some realisation it was well under their own control.
As FoxEye has said, the number of people who are truly incel must be extremely low, not to be crass or anything but when people with life changing disfigurements and syndromes are having sex, you know it’s pretty much nonsense.
As FoxEye has said, the number of people who are truly incel must be extremely low, not to be crass or anything but when people with life changing disfigurements and syndromes are having sex, you know it’s pretty much nonsense.
For a start I'm only vaguely familiar with the Incel term. From what I gather its based on some opinion that the person, mostly males, can't get a date with a woman based on a number of factors. I personally don't believe this to be the case. Heck, if I as a disabled guy can have relationships with non-disabled women then anyone can.
I'm not sure where in my reply I was generalising about women. The point I was making is that if men could have people pay for doing non-sexual things then they would be. In my post I said that mostly women are being paid to do things that aren't considered sexual by the average person. Lets talk about an example of that, peddle pumping. Women can be paid for being video'ed pressing down a peddle, like a clutch, brake or accelerator of a car. To most people this isn't a sexual act. My point being that if there was a market for men 'peddle pumping' then you're telling me you wouldn't be tempted (I'm assuming you're male?)?
I also question if the word prostituting is even applicable here with all its connotations. If we're going to use that word for none sexual jobs then even going to work would be prostituting.
I don't really understand why you're wound up about this? Would you consider yourself an Incel? Is that why you brought that term up?
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You make it sound like it's not intentional.
Imagine playing on the tribal instincts of the Taliban by injecting feminist dogma into their women to convince them to revolt against their men. They would wipe each other out of existence.
Divisions placed between genders is the ultimate depopulation formula - and the worst thing is it affects the above-average-intelligence members of society the most.
We're going down from here boyos.
That's incels in a nutshell. Don't know why some object so strongly to there being a word for it.
Are you angry and bitter and live off your parents, spending your free time gaining one more level in World of War Craft. Do you have a heavy habit for extreme, misogynistic porn and have an attitude that women are whores? Because I can tell you that all those things are way more off-putting in a date than someone being in a wheelchair or having a prosthetic limb.
First dates are a real headache now. There's a chance of offending the other person if you offer to pay the bill and a chance of offending them if you want to split. Managed to fall foul of it myself.
As for angry people getting revenge, methinks if they're that frustrated they should just rent by the hour. The "thots" do need to pay taxes though regardless of who shops them.
It's easier to root out worthless people though, the people so happy and readily wanting you to pay for everything... instantly realise that they're not worth the time.
The people who split are instantly many times a better person.
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Agreed.
LOL, so the definition of Incel now includes people who play WoW and live with their parents...?
This is what I'm objecting to.
This "Incel" nonsense is a word to encapsulate everyone who you and others consider to be "low status males". People you wouldn't want to date.
Anyone who finds it hard to get a date and has somewhat withdrawn from society/the dating game. Who has effectively given up on relationships.
So you turn these people into bogeymen, insisting that they "hate women" and are into extreme misogynistic porn, are totally bitter, play WoW, live with parents, etc. All of the things you think are indicators of "worthless men". Heck, no real man would play WoW or live with their parents.
So then you just take ALL of these indicators/traits you dislike, things you personally feel are a sign of male inadequacy, and throw them all together into a fiction, which might describe 0.00001% men in the real world.
*Exactly* like the left do with the catch-all term "alt-right". "Incel" is just another attempt to de-humanise, like "alt-right" is. You find an excuse to put a man into that category and then you lump them together with Charles Manson in your own mind.
^ Yeah that's my take on it. Lumping potentially socially awkward, nerdy types or low status males in with the psychopaths who are on the tipping point of shooting up a school because they got rejected.
I also don't even get what alt-right is meant to be anymore. I thought it was the provocateurs like Milo Yiannopoulos but now it seems to encompass anyone that wants to debate globalism, immigration or other issues that the very vocal hard left like to sweep under the carpet.
Now we have the ridiculous countermeasure of "NPCs" as well - it's all just childish, playground name-calling and pretty depressing tbh.
Outside the sensible people though, there are still the extremes of entitlement complex or crazy third wave feminists who don't want doors held open for them.
I also don't even get what alt-right is meant to be anymore. I thought it was the provocateurs like Milo Yiannopoulos but now it seems to encompass anyone that wants to debate globalism, immigration or other issues that the very vocal hard left like to sweep under the carpet.
Now we have the ridiculous countermeasure of "NPCs" as well - it's all just childish, playground name-calling and pretty depressing tbh.
Amen.
Outside the sensible people though, there are still the extremes of entitlement complex or crazy third wave feminists who don't want doors held open for them.
People who dont want to date aren't incels, it's people who do and are not date-able because of some awkward masculinity they feel they need to show the world and that when they're inevitably/constantly denied this copulation with their objectified female counterparts, they turn into bitter/sour/angry little ******** who post on 4chan/the_donald all day about how woman should be in their minds.
There are always causalities in grouping people up to attack their beliefs, it's justified as long as it's not violent or leading to violence.
I have no idea what their mind is like or how they could ever be that way, much like "chads" are, I can't compute the level of worthless effort that's required to be such a natural ****. All i can do is laugh at them and hope they never have any power.
There are always causalities in grouping people up to attack their beliefs, it's justified as long as it's not violent or leading to violence.
I have no idea what their mind is like or how they could ever be that way, much like "chads" are, I can't compute the level of worthless effort that's required to be such a natural ****. All i can do is laugh at them and hope they never have any power.
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I think its easier for some people to blame general factors for women not liking them than admit they have a confidence problem.
The first rule of getting a girlfriend is don't think about getting a girlfriend.
Be happy, be confident in yourself and be open to listening. Self confidence is the mystery aphrodisiac.
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Remind you of anything? exactly how the right wing nutters try to portray all Muslims as terrorists.
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After extensive research some of these "Thots" are pretty hot/blatant. All power to them, so long as they pay their taxes. 
All power to them, so long as they pay their taxes.