Threatening E-Mail

If she doesnt want to go to the meeting then fine. You go though. You turn up regardless, with the email chain printed off.
Speak to the social worker, let them know that you are wanting to see your son as it is your right (is there any reason to stop you legally seeing him more?).
 
I would ignore him as he doesn't have any right to say whether or not you can see your son. Or if all fails hire some guys to removed his knee caps with the back of a hammer? :)
 
Post the whole e-mail for an informed decision by the OCUK massive.

Good luck by the way, its a terrible thing you are going through.
 
nex20 said:
I would ignore him as he doesn't have any right to say whether or not you can see your son. Or if all fails hire some guys to removed his knee caps with the back of a hammer? :)
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Yeah, because that'll really strengthen his case to get more access to his son. :p
 
Can you get him to admit to sending that email in front of an independent 3rd party (a social worker or legal representative would be good).

It's not threatening but it appears to be written with the intent of being intimidating, given the weight that would be placed on the character of everybody involved by the family court it could well be significant.
 
women are ******* bitches when they do this

best of luck to you in your court case.

oh and punch her in the ovaries from me
 
My mate is going through the exact same thing with his ex at the minute. His daughter is the same age as your son.

Keep the email, and ignore it. It will not go down well with the court that they are threatening you, and neither will it go down well that she has suddenly decided that she doesn't want to see the social worker. Do not get into a written argument, you are prefectly entitled to see your son, and her and her family know this and are getting desperate. Once a fortnight is absolutely shocking, I think the average court settlement is around 35-50 hours a week?

Bide your time, be as good as gold and then smile when they get what's coming to them in court. Then they won't be able to do a damn thing about it. :)
 
Telescopi said:
Can you get him to admit to sending that email in front of an independent 3rd party (a social worker or legal representative would be good).

It's not threatening but it appears to be written with the intent of being intimidating, given the weight that would be placed on the character of everybody involved by the family court it could well be significant.
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Definately. May also be a valid case for libel if that email content is as baseless as it appears. It also appears quite insulting imho (if the rest of the 'insults' are any example), and incredibly badly contrived. People can be outrageous when they believe they are 'right'.
 
Some success for me today.

She failed to appear. The case worker called her to find out where she was and she screamed at the case worker down the telephone. Apparently she does not care that we have a Family Assistance Order and that she was obliged to turn up.

The case worker and I discussed my views on the progression of contact which went down very well. She has promised to support me by recommending my views to the Court. The Court rarely disagrees with CAFCASS.

I asked to care for him every Friday while she is at work, then from Saturday morning to Sunday evening every other week.

She will speak to her seperately, probably next week, then make her recommendations to the Court. I've asked for this to start on the 4th July.

I'll keep you all updated.

P.S. I showed her the e-mail from her Dad. She told me to keep it and show it to the Court.
 
Excellent news, focus on the important things and try not to let your ex or her family impact upon you (having been through similar, i know it's easier said than done).

All the best.
 
Well done mate. My parents went through a horribly messy divorce via solicitors/barristers. Was just a huge waste of time and money and helped no-one.

It should reflect well on you that you're the one who is calm, reasonable, sensible and turns up when expected to - and not the "lunatic screaming woman who ignores court orders"

Good luck with getting it all sorted out.
 
The Mad Rapper said:
Some success for me today.

She failed to appear. The case worker called her to find out where she was and she screamed at the case worker down the telephone. Apparently she does not care that we have a Family Assistance Order and that she was obliged to turn up.

The case worker and I discussed my views on the progression of contact which went down very well. She has promised to support me by recommending my views to the Court. The Court rarely disagrees with CAFCASS.

I asked to care for him every Friday while she is at work, then from Saturday morning to Sunday evening every other week.

She will speak to her seperately, probably next week, then make her recommendations to the Court. I've asked for this to start on the 4th July.

I'll keep you all updated.

P.S. I showed her the e-mail from her Dad. She told me to keep it and show it to the Court.
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Excellent news, hope it all goes well

On another note , what ever possessed you to get involved with such a looney? :p
 
JBuk said:
Excellent news, hope it all goes well

On another note , what ever possessed you to get involved with such a looney? :p
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Women can be quite good at hiding the crazy for a time. It's only when it's too late that you realise what you've gotten yourself into.

I speak from experience.
 
Sorry to hear that your in this situation Mad Ripper but kudos to you. You are doing the sensible thing and whats right for your son too, no one should grow up without one of their parents in their lives. Muchos Luck for the future. Keep us updated.

Aero
 
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