Today is the day I lost respect for the British police

[BDEE]

OP had a GF?!

 

[Judgeneo]

Did you order the Code Red?

I'll answer the question. You want answers?

Did you order the Code Red?

I did the job that....

 

[TheVoice]

Why just the British police? Why not all police? Why not all humans? All living things?

 

[Mak3R]

It's a test, call her bluff and keep contacting her. You'll win for sure.

 

[Tunney]

 

[Flying_Hellfish]

The whole situation sounds ridiculous. Did you at any point give her any reason to think you were still interested? Obviously this is only one side of the story we are hearing

 

[Ilikeitblackplease]

The whole situation sounds ridiculous. Did you at any point give her any reason to think you were still interested? Obviously this is only one side of the story we are hearing

No, the point is I did not contact her, however she said she thinks I did, what stops her doing the same later down the line? anyway contacting a solicitor to discuss this plus I'm going to put in a complaint of sexual assault next week.
She also lied under oath in court this year, just before we broke up which shows you her character as a person.

 

[Ilikeitblackplease]

No, a PIN will not come up on any DBS check.

The purpose of a PIN is not to assign guilt or anything like that, but to make sure that a particular person knows their actions may amount to harassment and that they should cease contact. The offence of harassment has a stipulation that a person knows or should know that their actions amount to harassment. The issuing of a PIN means that this defence of "I didn't know my constant text messaging amounted to harassment" is prevented.

The fact that you got one is pretty irrelevant as long as you don't continue to contact your ex.

It comes up under other relevant information.

 

[Ilikeitblackplease]

I would love an explanation on the link between your ex calling the five 0 and democracy???

democratic policing.

 

[cheesyboy]

No, the point is I did not contact her, however she said she thinks I did, what stops her doing the same later down the line? anyway contacting a solicitor to discuss this plus I'm going to put in a complaint of sexual assault next week.
She also lied under oath in court this year, just before we broke up which shows you her character as a person.

Just let it go dude.

Pursuing sexual assault charges for her kissing you in a club just paints you as a massive loser. Stop trying to be a victim and man up.

 

[Ilikeitblackplease]

Just let it go dude.

Pursuing sexual assault charges for her kissing you in a club just paints you as a massive loser. Stop trying to be a victim and man up.

See how you feel if you are accused then come back and tell me let it go, it's not a nice feeling. No wonder a lot of men in this country get mess up by women because they allow it.

 

[LordSplodge]

No wonder a lot of men in this country get mess up by women because they allow it.

Put the axe down that you clearly have to grind.

 

[cheesyboy]

See how you feel if you are accused then come back and tell me let it go, it's not a nice feeling. No wonder a lot of men in this country get mess up by women because they allow it.

You know how not to get messed up? Just shrug and walk away. Stop caring: she's your ex, you don't need to resolve it, this stuff doesn't matter.

Find something more important to spend your energy on. Like anything that isn't wasting your life trying to score points against your ex.

 

[p1RATE]

democratic policing.

What?..?

I think your solution of getting her back with sexual harassment allegations is a great response to her calling the police on you because she wants you out of her life

 

[Ilikeitblackplease]

What?..?

I think your solution of getting her back with sexual harassment allegations is a great response to her calling the police on you because she wants you out of her life

So you are saying its ok, to be a victim if your a man and don't respond to false allegations.

 

[Ilikeitblackplease]

You know how not to get messed up? Just shrug and walk away. Stop caring: she's your ex, you don't need to resolve it, this stuff doesn't matter.

Find something more important to spend your energy on. Like anything that isn't wasting your life trying to score points against your ex.

Its not about scoring points its about future ramifications because of this event. Then you wonder why the whole world takes the micky out of the Brits, the mentality to sit back and allow it to happen.

 

[FTM]

you both side like you have issues to be honest

 

[Skidder]

Do you have a friend or family member who is of above average intelligence? If so, great, perhaps ask them for advice.

 

[wordy]

Harassment notices do not in any way indicate the recipient is guilty. A complaint was received by your ex regarding alleged harassment and you were issued with a PIN as a result - police information notice - not a caution or conviction.

If you aren't happy about it then there is a complaints procedure in place.

No, a PIN will not come up on any DBS check.

The purpose of a PIN is not to assign guilt or anything like that, but to make sure that a particular person knows their actions may amount to harassment and that they should cease contact. The offence of harassment has a stipulation that a person knows or should know that their actions amount to harassment. The issuing of a PIN means that this defence of "I didn't know my constant text messaging amounted to harassment" is prevented.

The fact that you got one is pretty irrelevant as long as you don't continue to contact your ex.

But if it hasn't contacted his ex and there is no evidence to suggest otherwise, why issue one in the 1st place?

 

[jonney_joop]

what a amusing thread. great read during a friday