Virginity

[TW]Fox;13282162 said:
Why is it strange? Some people are like that. I waited until I was 21 and was with somebody I really, really liked before I did it. Whats wrong with that? It might not be the norm but it's hardly weird.

And I'm sure your 5 series felt the same way too. :)
 
I'm 17 and still a virgin. Haven't had a decent relationship in a while either but eh, it's not too important for me.

Too much hype is made of it tbh.

prostitute, deal with it.

and to the rest of you, you do not simply refuse to go out with HOT GIRLS! WHY??!!????
 
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I have no religious beliefs (or beliefs in a personal god, at least), so to me sex is just a physical act.

I'm unchanged by this physical act - it's but a memory, I don't believe that i'm somehow spiritually changed by the act.

So my question is, why should being a virgin vs not, matter?

Makes no difference.
 
[TW]Fox;13282162 said:
Why is it strange? Some people are like that. I waited until I was 21 and was with somebody I really, really liked before I did it. Whats wrong with that? It might not be the norm but it's hardly weird.

So did I. Now I hate her and wished I hadn't :D
 
Sex is just that - sex, to me, anyway.
I admit sex can be romantic but I think the vast majority prefer it rough and ready. ;)
I really do think that romance is something gained from things other than sex. For example, if I truely loved someone with all my heart, I could definately live without sex. Whereas, if it was just for fun or not so serious, I'd care more about the sex than what me and said person did when not doing the old how's your father.

Thats just me. My best friends are my 3 brothers and I grew up with them so :p

And I agree, my first time was damn awkward, it actually made me think "is this all sex is? what the heck is all the hype about?!"
 
didn't give mine up until I was good and ready, probably because I'm a stubborn cow. My first proper boyfriend (I was 16, he was 19) cheated on me 3 times because I wasn't ready to put out and I thank my lucky stars that I didn't give in to that ******.
You go out with a 19 year old walking stack of raging hormones and wonder why he wants sex?
 
I lost mine at 18.

Was with a girl for about a year on and off, nearly lost it to her, but her sis was rushed to hospital, 10mins later and would have, week later we split up because of other reasons ... 4months later shes with someone else i find out she lost it to someone, i go out get really drunk and lost mine to a one night stand... can't remember girl or much tbh... big regret.

But few weeks later me and her get back to gether, no nervous first time stuff, and seeing how we tried new stuff with each other and found out what each other likes and just growing sexually wiht each other was to me a lot more rewarding. Were now split up.

I've had a new one nighters, and they don't compare to sex with someone that you know really well and know what they like and visa versa...

I've slept with virgins(3), and there is nothing fun tbh about it, they don't enjoy it generally as it hurts then.

My 2p.
 
Personally I think that it should be saved for someone that you actually care about, not lost "willy nilly," and the same with having sex in general. But whatever floats your boat is an individuals choice.
 
You'll find a lot of people who are saving themselves, have never had the opportunity so far.

Once it comes, its off with the panties!!
 
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