I was having a rough time of it yesterday. Rage quit more than once... I spent money unlocking things and stupidly forgot to leave enough to deploy with a decent loadout. Mistakes were made. I then proceeded to get into multiple rounds where the team was getting spanked which led to me struggling recover enough money to be comfortable, I'd gather enough from spotting, pull a decent loadout and get whacked very quickly or just not even make it to the zone due to terrible pilots or such.
Thankfully today was much better, just had a really chill game where I spent pretty much the entire time spotting/sniping a red tower and thwarting their attempts to push out from the FOB they had built there. I even had my first session on the mortar and can see why its so OP, its so easy to range in and be accurate.
Not everyone will be or has to be. You gave it a try and its not for you and thats cool. It can be a little janky at times, there is definitely a long road to go, however, as far as EA launches go, it has released in a very good state and if they keep up development, and adding maps/weapons/features etc and dont let it stagnate it has the potential to be a genuine great title.