was getting on fine......

shifty_uk · 4 May 2006 at 23:58

Thanks for all the feedback and offers, I feel loved

I really appreciate this. You sure know how to make an unhappy chap feel better.

shifty_uk · 5 May 2006 at 00:30

Just got a very nasty email from her, saying pretty nasty stuff, about her getting new boyfriends etc, going out with them when she was going out with me, about her getting somewhere in life now thats shes not got me, calling me names, saying stuff about me....you know the chavy way, and asking me to look at profile pages of "sexy" guys shes been talking to and that.

But DAMNNN, its all talk, every single word of it is a lie. I seen her saying to an old friend on her old friends profile page that she was down the job center today signing on and looking for a Job, and then she says to me shes a student doing a childcare thing, and saying shes going out with this new boy when it says on her page shes single and says on his page he's single, haha, every word of it is rubbish, but I've resorted to deleting the email address, I feel a bit shackey, but Hey, I know every word of it is absolute rubbish, so I feel good about that. I'll get over it, and I've got a whole life ahead of me

she just makes me hate her, more than what I already do

Thanks for reading every1 :cool:

Rich_L · 5 May 2006 at 00:36

Good lad

yer_averagejoe · 5 May 2006 at 00:56

hey i just read your origional post on the other thread and havent read all of this thread even. I'm not experienced, probably about as experienced as you are considering she was your first love.. Girls can change pretty easily andpretty drastically at our age. I'm sorry but it'll probably take a while.

McDaniel · 5 May 2006 at 01:08

time really does help mate, just cut contact its for the best

and she does sound like a mad woman

Windle · 5 May 2006 at 09:16

shifty_uk said:
But DAMNNN, its all talk, every single word of it is a lie.

Good lad, she obviously isn't worth it.

iCraig · 5 May 2006 at 09:25

Just respond with whatever she says with

"ok"

For some reason that really gets under their skin, probably because you're responding but not rising to her, which is what she wants.

SidewinderINC · 5 May 2006 at 09:29

iCraig said:
Just respond with whatever she says with

"ok"

For some reason that really gets under their skin, probably because you're responding but not rising to her, which is what she wants.

dont rise to her with either positive or negative emotions! make it known that you're the dominant one (not in that kinky way though)

thats why just saying OK is so annoying for them.

Vonhelmet · 5 May 2006 at 12:42

Ignore her.

Oh, but let her know her NI number first. It's a bit lame exacting revenge by keeping that from her.

shifty_uk · 5 May 2006 at 12:44

I said I'll give her the NI number back, and her rather "bad" exam results back, if I get back some of my things, that was before I got the nasty email back, saying things to make me feel bad.

Dave · 5 May 2006 at 12:47

shifty_uk said:
Just got a very nasty email from her, saying pretty nasty stuff, about her getting new boyfriends etc, going out with them when she was going out with me, about her getting somewhere in life now thats shes not got me, calling me names, saying stuff about me....you know the chavy way, and asking me to look at profile pages of "sexy" guys shes been talking to and that.

But DAMNNN, its all talk, every single word of it is a lie. I seen her saying to an old friend on her old friends profile page that she was down the job center today signing on and looking for a Job, and then she says to me shes a student doing a childcare thing, and saying shes going out with this new boy when it says on her page shes single and says on his page he's single, haha, every word of it is rubbish, but I've resorted to deleting the email address, I feel a bit shackey, but Hey, I know every word of it is absolute rubbish, so I feel good about that. I'll get over it, and I've got a whole life ahead of me she just makes me hate her, more than what I already do

Send an email back with the ORLY? owl

VeNT · 5 May 2006 at 12:50

tbh, setup a filter so all her emails go straight to trash!

shifty_uk · 5 May 2006 at 12:51

VeNT said:
tbh, setup a filter so all her emails go straight to trash!

I deleted the Email address

Sparky__H · 5 May 2006 at 12:53

Only thing I can recommend is you block her emails and if se gets another one, block that too. She’ll grow bored of signing up for new accounts a lot faster then you’ll grow tired of blocking them. Failing that change yours.

And don’t forget to ring up your phone service provider and have her number blocked.

Only way to deal with girls like her is to deny them all access.

shifty_uk · 5 May 2006 at 12:56

One thing I am quite worried about.

I feel really bad when I get an Email from this evil person.....what am I going to be like if I ever see her, or even worse, see her with a guy? Damn, can't imagine that

Hopefully I'll be with a new chick though, and be able to walk past her with me head in the air

Rich_L · 5 May 2006 at 12:56

Sparky__H said:
Only way to deal with girls like her is to deny them all access.

Aye, lock 'em in the basement tbh.

Morba · 5 May 2006 at 13:00

1) get over your obsession with the word chav
2) put her email address on auto delete
3) go out and have some fun. your too young to not be enjoying yourself.

McDaniel · 5 May 2006 at 13:01

Morba said:
1) get over your obsession with the word chav

LOL

Morba · 5 May 2006 at 13:03

how gorgeous are these blokes shes supposedly been seeing?
are they really really nice looking? does she say they are amazing and all sorts?

if so, just be happy that you were half decent yourself. for her to put you down she has to find better, if all she can find is the most gorgeous fantastic men, then you couldnt of been far from being that good yourself.

wtf does all that mean? bugger all probably

shifty_uk · 5 May 2006 at 16:57

Morba said:
1) get over your obsession with the word chav

I actually dislike the word chav

, but I just use it to best describe her. Sorry, will stop saying it now.

I'm just sitting in work at the moment, I've been not too bad all day, some bad bits, but just about 10 minutes ago, I started thinking about bad things, and its just got me so down now, I feel so awful and can't stop thinking bad things. I'm dying here!
I believe that I'm the better person, and that she is a stupid little girl, but why am I the one thats left to feel so bad and empty? Its not really fair.

Just thought i'd say