Was i out of order?

Aruffell

Aruffell

Aruffell

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I've just got back from the pub.

Was there the other day and i was playing pool, and this girl kept smiling at me. I saw her again tonight and i said hi and went to the toilet.

When i finished she opened the door and asked if i was alright lol. I said yes, and said that i was going to ask for her number the other day. She said that i could ask for it now so i did and she gave me her home number. I then asked for a kiss and she gave me one. She said i couldn't have a big kiss because she had a boyfriend of 3 weeks. I asked for a proper kiss and got one so we snogged/got off etc...

Have i done a bad thing as she has a boyfriend or do you think it's ok?

I personally think it's ok because she has a boyfriend and it takes 2 to tango so it was her choice to give me her number and get off with me.

Am i right?

Andy
 
Aruffell said:
She said i couldn't have a big kiss because she had a boyfriend of 3 weeks. I asked for a proper kiss and got one so we snogged/got off etc...

Have i done a bad thing as she has a boyfriend or do you think it's ok?
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You have sinned...badly. :eek:

You knew she had a BF, but still got your wicked way with her.
 
Not at all, she might have been out of order but not you. it's fair game! :D

Though just pray that her boyfriend isn't 6ft 6" tall and wide :p
 
TripleT said:
Not at all, she might have been out of order but not you. it's fair game! :D

Though just pray that her boyfriend isn't 6ft 6" tall and wide :p
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Well i saw them all outside and i was debating on calling for a taxi, so i did :D

By that time her bf had left lol

Andy
 
Without going to the effort of checking your profile but I'm guessing you're aged between 14 and 18?
Do as you see feel is right -if you like her go for it. I mean, a "big kiss"? a boyfriend of 3 weeks?......... :confused:
 
The question is: Has she really been dating this other guy for 3 weeks coz if not it could get ugly. If she really likes you then she needs to do it the right way, dump the other guy then go out with you.
 
JayMax said:
Without going to the effort of checking your profile but I'm guessing you're aged between 14 and 18?
Do as you see feel is right -if you like her go for it. I mean, a "big kiss"? a boyfriend of 3 weeks?......... :confused:
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19 :D lol

Andy
 
Slogan said:
Sounds like a classy woman.
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Lolol. :D

Nah, you did good imo. Somtimes a bit of rough can be a lot more attractive than a snooby well to do girl. Its nice to mix it up every now and again. I love a good chavish girl somtimes.
 
Well she was the one who came to you, so i would say she was way more in the wrong than you, but your not in any way in the right.

Give her a ring, have a chat about the situation, see how it goes
 
You did wrong.

She did wrong.

*in best Montel Williams voice* Now, can we please welcome, her boyfriend to the thread?

In seriousness, I would suggest finding a better girl. Whilst it might be fun now - it has huge potential to get very ugly and even if you do end up with her - what are the chances she won't do the same to you? (As suggested in the thread by others)

Good women are hard to find - unfortunately this mentality of 'you only live once' is as bad in women, as it is in men.

What can I say? At 18, I'm old fashioned.
 
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