What is defined as cheating?

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What is the line between flirting and cheating? How much flirting is tolerable?

Or is flirting as good as cheating?
 
Doing something that you know you shouldn't be doing.

Bit vague isn't it? The OP asked for what YOU think specificly not a general opinion.

I'd say the same as Asprilla the whole heavy petting, and kissing in a sexual manner is when it goes to far.
 
Depends who's doing the flirting - and if you've agreed that some level of flirting is acceptable, all boils down to individual relationships really.

I'm fine with my g/f kissing her friends for example, but I dont feel the need to kiss mine :p
 
I'd say that anything remotely sexual or flirty is cheating. Just think of it the other way round, if you imagine your other half doing whatever it was that you were doing, would you be happy or think it was fine?
 
Bit vague isn't it? The OP asked for what YOU think specificly not a general opinion.

I'd say the same as Asprilla the whole heavy petting, and kissing in a sexual manner is when it goes to far.

I think he's got a good point.

If you do something that you're comfortable doing and doesnt feel like cheating, then chances are it's not. If you feel guilty about doing something, chances are you're cheating.

This only applies to people with morals though
 
I flirt with all my friends, in a joking manner.

Petting/snogging or more is a hack as far as I'm concerned, whereas flirting at most will be like camping, annoying, but tolerable :p
 
I think anything ranging from intentionally developing feelings for another girl, to physical contact such as kissing/sex/everything inbetween is cheating.
 
Doing something that you know you shouldn't be doing.

this..


doing anything you normally wouldn't do it your other half was there..

edit, + what mint sauce said

\/ edit, and what kai said, i couldn't care less if my gf kisses her friends
 
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I'd say that anything remotely sexual or flirty is cheating. Just think of it the other way round, if you imagine your other half doing whatever it was that you were doing, would you be happy or think it was fine?

Depends if it was another girl she was flirting with ;) everythings fine.
 
Snogging is cheating. And flirting to me is a total waste of time, why flirt if your taken and happy? flirt with your partner to keep the spark alive... if your not happy you shouldn't be with them...

So as far am im concerd if your flirting you just made yourself single in doing so, and if your not willing to tell your partner exactly what you said/the girl you was flirting with said... then you know its wrong anyway
 
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