What is defined as cheating?

Greebo said:
Shagging your assistant at work on your desk count? My gf thought it did :(
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Not sure, I'd have to come round and try it to give you a diffinitive answer.

Noel Gallagher said:
I'd class flirtin as cheating. You shouldnt be doing it if youre with someone..
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Yup, because it's so black and white, not a grey area at all, no siree.

I flirt with one of the PAs at work. We have a laugh and I get my docs signed off by her boss quicker than I would normally expect.
 
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[DOD]Asprilla;13674734 said:
Not sure, I'd have to come round and try it to give you a diffinitive answer.
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Your welcome to her. She has already slept with two other managers at work.
 
Telling my wifes sister I'd giver her a right good seeing too* if I was single isn't cheating.

Actually doing it while I was married would be.


Yes, my wife knows - that's why I think she wont divorce me.
 
matt_fsr said:
Is she on a better pay grade now then? :p
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Nah. She was just after a "rich" manager to shack up with and look after her.

I should have smelt a rat when she sent me a text saying she had no knickers on. I sent one back saying "I don't beleive you". She said "Why don't I check?"

I sent one back saying "How would you suggest I do that?" and next she walked into my office, shut my door, walked round my desk and took my hand and put it up her short skirt (oh she was wearing stockings & suspenders as well). Then she said she would stay back for some "overtime" and see me later.

Rest was history.
 
iaind said:
I think he's got a good point.

If you do something that you're comfortable doing and doesnt feel like cheating, then chances are it's not. If you feel guilty about doing something, chances are you're cheating.

This only applies to people with morals though
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Mint_Sauce said:
I'd say that anything remotely sexual or flirty is cheating. Just think of it the other way round, if you imagine your other half doing whatever it was that you were doing, would you be happy or think it was fine?
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Dogoid said:
the moment you start feeling guilty, then its cheating. cheating yourself.
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The above.

If it feels naughty, it probably is!
 
Christ, any flirting = cheating?! No wonder so many relationships break up, are people supposed to turn into boring shells of people when they are in a relationship or something?! :p
 
Neodite said:
Snogging is cheating. And flirting to me is a total waste of time, why flirt if your taken and happy? flirt with your partner to keep the spark alive... if your not happy you shouldn't be with them...
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I completely agree with this point...

I would class cheating as from Kissing to going all the way as you only flirt when you want something. If you were happy, then you wouldn't need to flirt...
I wouldn't flirt/kiss/sleep with anyone other than my wife as I know it hurts the other person...Some women just dont have a guilty conscience so they can say they dont cheat, when really they do or have done...
 
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