Because the rest seem full of ignorance (in general). I wouldn't assume that a bunch of internet nerds know anything at all about parenthood and being a good parent so the fact that the OP is asking 'us' how to successfully deal with his child is questionable.
seen as this is general discussion i suggest you go back to what ever hardware section you deem worthy of your superior knowledge. if we take a poll i bet quite a large amount of people that use this forum have children or some sort of sensible advice, i don`t think its a bad thing to ask others opinions on matters which you have been unable to sort out. who would be better to ask this question of? the OPs parents? the next door neighbours? people at work? all of those people wouldn`t have any more valid responses than the people on here.