Let me share a little story, a serious one in fact, something slightly similar happened when I was 19/20ish
She was 15 think her name was Sarah it was a case of not letting her walk home from her friends house a few were at. I met my sister from this house to walk her home for my folks.
Anyhow that was fine walked her back once or twice others new I was walking her infact there was normally a group of us including my sister, an enroute drop off thing. This may happen a few times if a few of them were over the same house, saves everyone comming over to pick people up. However she then would ask me to walk her home and didn't see a prob and that was fine her mum even knew I did that and appreciated it and would invite me in (mum was fit by the way).
However she then started telling me she was having dreams and stuff about me and then I thought eh little odd and my naivity didn't think much of it.
Anyhow she got my mobile number off my sister sometime (I had a motorola brick irrc).
Didn't see a prob with it as me and the mum and the family got on, infact I was semi-adopted in, the mum had 4 daughters and I looked out for em all big bro style (the mum would ring me up as well sometimes).
However things took a nasty step when one time Sarah lied to her mum about something, Sarah rang me to ask if I would meet her from work, didn't see a prob as mum knew stuff like that and as far as I knew she wouldn't lie to her mum. Anyhow I got to her place of work and was a little early so I went to some shop for something. I remember her mum walking by the window and was thinking I must have been late. No far from the fact, infact Sarah was lying about things her mum was meeting her that day and her mum went awol on me when I Was there... I didn't see a prob as I thought it was all green.
One day I came back from someplace and a van was parked outside, a family friend of theres and in my house this guy was sat in there. I was fine iirc and my mum sat there concerned. Point was Sarah had been lying about somethings and using me as a scape goat.
My naivity was blown and what was all seen as fairly normal had blown the trust of the daughter and mother apart and I was in the middle, their family life was wobbly and the mum had trouble trusting men I learned this painfully and innocently and it put me on guard with people, it was my first hand experience of it all.
A lot of names and words came up in a ongoing conversation and it got worse, the mum would ring me up asking if her daughter was there and well she wasn't.
One time I was home revising for college and the door bell rang it was piddling with rain and Sarah was there and I didn't know what to do. Basically I had to not let her in to save my sanity and not have anything said.
Then I got nasty calls, and her shouting down the phone (Sarah), her family and sister saying I tried stuff (Sarah saying stuff).
It ended we me loosing it and asking what the hell she was playing at etc. She saw the whole thing as a joke.
Few years later and shes living with some bloke and got a kid, conversation is now adult since we are both in our 20's.
My point is girls no matter how old they look and act they will still think as the age they are and they will lie and twist the most innocent of acts. You have to adire a lot of caution and you can not leave yourself in a situation.
Learn or get burned.
She was 15 think her name was Sarah it was a case of not letting her walk home from her friends house a few were at. I met my sister from this house to walk her home for my folks.
Anyhow that was fine walked her back once or twice others new I was walking her infact there was normally a group of us including my sister, an enroute drop off thing. This may happen a few times if a few of them were over the same house, saves everyone comming over to pick people up. However she then would ask me to walk her home and didn't see a prob and that was fine her mum even knew I did that and appreciated it and would invite me in (mum was fit by the way).
However she then started telling me she was having dreams and stuff about me and then I thought eh little odd and my naivity didn't think much of it.
Anyhow she got my mobile number off my sister sometime (I had a motorola brick irrc).
Didn't see a prob with it as me and the mum and the family got on, infact I was semi-adopted in, the mum had 4 daughters and I looked out for em all big bro style (the mum would ring me up as well sometimes).
However things took a nasty step when one time Sarah lied to her mum about something, Sarah rang me to ask if I would meet her from work, didn't see a prob as mum knew stuff like that and as far as I knew she wouldn't lie to her mum. Anyhow I got to her place of work and was a little early so I went to some shop for something. I remember her mum walking by the window and was thinking I must have been late. No far from the fact, infact Sarah was lying about things her mum was meeting her that day and her mum went awol on me when I Was there... I didn't see a prob as I thought it was all green.
One day I came back from someplace and a van was parked outside, a family friend of theres and in my house this guy was sat in there. I was fine iirc and my mum sat there concerned. Point was Sarah had been lying about somethings and using me as a scape goat.
My naivity was blown and what was all seen as fairly normal had blown the trust of the daughter and mother apart and I was in the middle, their family life was wobbly and the mum had trouble trusting men I learned this painfully and innocently and it put me on guard with people, it was my first hand experience of it all.
A lot of names and words came up in a ongoing conversation and it got worse, the mum would ring me up asking if her daughter was there and well she wasn't.
One time I was home revising for college and the door bell rang it was piddling with rain and Sarah was there and I didn't know what to do. Basically I had to not let her in to save my sanity and not have anything said.
Then I got nasty calls, and her shouting down the phone (Sarah), her family and sister saying I tried stuff (Sarah saying stuff).
It ended we me loosing it and asking what the hell she was playing at etc. She saw the whole thing as a joke.
Few years later and shes living with some bloke and got a kid, conversation is now adult since we are both in our 20's.
My point is girls no matter how old they look and act they will still think as the age they are and they will lie and twist the most innocent of acts. You have to adire a lot of caution and you can not leave yourself in a situation.
Learn or get burned.
