What would you do if...

hmmm, my mum knows a married couple where the man became a woman, and they are currently still together, but I have heard the real woman finds it difficult, and seeing as she's not a lesbian I doubt she's happy - in this case I think they will either just break up completely, or drift into a horrible non-loving state and stay there. Of course I'm sure there must be lots of different scenarios and outcomes, but I'd be inclined to think that most of the time these relationships wouldn't work out... unless you're bisexual.
 
I'm disappointed in you, OcUK...

The ONE thread, the ONLY thread, where "punch her in the ovaries" would have actually been a funny 1st reply, and nobody does it?:D
 
jp_bl_68 said:
I've always thought that degrees of love are a bit of a cop out. You either love someone or you don't.
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You don't just wake up on day and suddenly realise you love someone... Well I don't anyway.

I'd ditch them anyway, as well as the obvious issue there'd also be a clear lack of trust and openness.
 
If I couldn't tell without being told, I dont think I'd be worried.

I think by the time I was in a committed relationship, it would have taken one hell of a sex change for me not to notice. :p
 
For me, the issue is that there wouldn't be any chance of starting a biological family with said person. Certainly not by natual means anyway. The lack of trust would be an issue too.
 
meghatronic said:
You would know. Or you should know.

So it's a non-issue.
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A few people have said that. Why should you know? Obviously if she looks and sounds like a bloke in a dress then alarm bells should start ringing. But if she looks, sounds and acts like a woman, in all respects, then how could you know?
 
paulhuk2 said:
Think she's cute? :p
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jp_bl_68 said:
A few people have said that. Why should you know? Obviously if she looks and sounds like a bloke in a dress then alarm bells should start ringing. But if she looks, sounds and acts like a woman, in all respects, then how could you know?
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The daily pills might give it a way.

I nearly threw up reading about the surgery, so I can't offer any more at the moment.
 
jp_bl_68 said:
Not really. If you didn't want someone to know you'd had a sex change you'd probably hide the fact you were taking any pills.
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Hmmmm. I see your point. But I'm so bilious thinking about it. Odd that I'm not offput when I think of female genitals (obviously) or male genitals (I'm straight) but when they're 'converted' makes me feel ill. Maybe it's the castration?
 
I'd punch her in the......oh! wait!
Seriously, I'd be gone, at the very least due to the fact that it lied to me for the entire duration of the relationship.
 
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