What would you do?

tell them exactly what you think about the situation, if they still dont take advice then let them cary on
some people need to learn the hard way or they dont learn
atleast from my experience
 
I've told him plenty of times, and I think he may resent me for it now. I am starting to think I may need to just leave him to it, as much as I don't want him to have to learn the hard way, cos that way he gets hurt.

I think I'll just make sure he knows that I'm there for him if he needs me and hope that these 'mates' have finally realised his worth and will treat him right, cos he deserves it. My gut is telling me otherwise but all I can do is hope my gut is wrong and support him.
 
its easier for somone with a 3rd person perspective to see what needs to be done and have an objective viewpoint on stuff like this
getting the person to take that viewpoint onboard... thats a whole nother matter, sometimes it cant be done
 
I must admit i had picked it up from the posts on here :)

Well it changes everything because if you didn't have feelings then you'd be crazy to get involved..but if you do have feelings for someone then a rational way of thinking completely flies out of the window unfortunately :( as your probably finding out!

My point is that obviously you shouldn't get more and more involved but what difference does that make? what does your heart tell you? ;)
 
bobert50 said:
I must admit i had picked it up from the posts on here :)

Well it changes everything because if you didn't have feelings then you'd be crazy to get involved..but if you do have feelings for someone then a rational way of thinking completely flies out of the window unfortunately :( as your probably finding out!

My point is that obviously you shouldn't get more and more involved but what difference does that make? what does your heart tell you? ;)
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Well I wasn't advertising it but I wasn't hiding it either! ;p

My heart tells me that he's worth being there for, as painful as it is..
 
I have told him what I think and all it seems to do is make him more defensive- I think it's probably best to let him figure it out for himself if these friends are bad for him or not, and unfortunately that means risking him getting hurt again and just being there for him if he does.
 
Sounds like the best (and only) option to me. Especially if it's causing you physical discomfort! He'll eventually see what's happening and realise that you were right all along.
 
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