Final note, thanks all ... it seems there is no perfect way to guarantee good neighbours in life.
I have been extremely unlucky in life, in that my last house was amongst chavs of the worst kind and when I moved to this area some 15 or so years ish ago, was plagued by this horrible old, eccentric lonely Lady inviting me in for cups of tea from day 1 ... felt duty obliged at first I suppose, but OMG, it was just gossip city, ... it was like, "see those people over there, they are Romanians" ... and "what do you think of Derek at number 12" ... the woman is quite mad IMHO, but soon I made excuses for not going for her Cuppa invites, and made polite excuses ... and ever since she has spat venom at me and tried to make my life a misery to the best of her mad ability ... she trys to play the victim, but is clearly unhinged ... sadly her behaviour has escalated again where she accosts my Asda and Tesco grocery delivery drivers demanding to know what I say about her ... Its nonsense, I just wish she never existed and wish I had never moved here now ... honestly.
As I say Police are involved now, but I fear its just going to get worse now once the dust settles, because society favour old eccentric Woman over guys like me that just want a quite life with no hassle.
This horrible old lady has made my life a misery for far to long and I've had enough.
Looking to move soon though, all advice taken onboard, and thanks for helpful hints ... I cant be unlucky three moves in a row, can I?