Supposing that we randomly pick a _child_ from a two-child family. We
see that he is a boy, and want to find out whether his sibling is a
brother or a sister. (For example, from all the children of two-child
families, we select a child at random who happens to be a boy.) In
this case, an unambiguous statement of the question could be:
From the set of all families with two children, a child is
selected at random and is found to be a boy. What is the
probability that the other child of the family is a girl?
Note that here we have a pool of kids (all of whom are from two-child
families) and we're pulling one kid out of the pool. This is like the
problem you're talking about. The child selected could have an older
brother, an older sister, a younger brother or a younger sister.
Let's look at the possible combinations of two children. We'll use B
for Boy and G for girl, and for each combination we'll list the older
child first, so GB means older sister while BG means younger sister.
There are 4 possible combinations:
{BB, BG, GB, GG}
From these possible combinations, we can eliminate the GG combination
since we know that one child is a boy. The three remaining possible
combinations are:
{BB, BG, GB}
In these combinations there are four boys, of whom we have chosen one.
Let's identify them from left to right as B1, B2, B3 and B4. So we
have:
{B1B2, B3G, GB4}
Of these four boys, only B3 and B4 have a sister, so our chance of
randomly picking one of these boys is 2 in 4, and the probability is
1/2 - as you have indicated.