My wife has ADHD and she gets on great with YNAB there is some initial setup setting up the pots for bills, days out etc but once those are setup and you have YNAB linked to your bank account you can then start assigning transactions to budgets, it does a pretty good job of matching things automatically after you have done it the first time.
We rarely look at the bank app any more, other than to reconcile once a month, with IOS you can add widgets that show the balance of specified pots eg eating out, days out etc.
There is also plenty of graphs, reports you can do as well should you like that sort of thing.
There is plenty of YouTube guides on setting it up, how it works and also a pretty decent Reddit for YNAB.
Hope that helps