You're not a true OCUKer til you've done one of these

[Mister_Pister]

So heres the story.

Me and the gf were going on holiday today - in about 2hrs time infact. She was driving down yesterday from Middlesbrough to London. About 5pm or so she said she was roundabout an hour away. The rain etc on the motorway was atrocious. Gets to about 7pm, no sign of her, try ringing but the phone is off. 8pm comes...9pm...10, still cant get hold of her. Gettin pretty worried now. Gets to 3am and I am practically puking up with worrying so much. Try to find her mums number but its ex directory so my mate suggests asking her local police to look into it for me which I do and they say they will pop round.

I try and get some sleep - wake up about 5ish and turn on my pc to find an msn message from the gf (from an unknown location) saying that she is ****** off with me because her mum is apparantly in hysterics because she thought something had happened to her. HELLO what did she think I was thinking???

So that brings us to now, I still have no idea where she is - my guess would be heading to the airport to go on her own though. So ive said if she cant understand why I did what I did then she should get on the flight because she obviously isnt the woman I thought she was. And if she can work it out then ditch the airport and come talk to me.

I know everyone says this in situations by these but I think I was in NO way in the wrong here, you cant just expect to not turn up at all after saying you'll be there in an hour and expect the other person to just be fine with it and not care. I would do the same thing every single time.

hmpf.

 

[Mister_Pister]

thats the annoying part. Its her dads villa and she has the plane tickets Well its down to her now anyway. Cheers for agreeing with me though - hopefully she can reverse the situations and see what she would do in my place.

 

[Mister_Pister]

I dont have any of her mates numbers unfortunatly. Her mum was the only one had any kind of details on to hope to get some info back.

Even when im angry I can usually see both sides of the argument but here I dont think she has a leg to stand on. The stupidist part of it is I still have absolutely no clue where the hell she was last night!

 

[Mister_Pister]

yep thats about the jist of it. The only angle she is looking at it from is "he upset my mummy at 4am" I think

 

[Mister_Pister]

nope not a clue. At a guess id say a travel lodge or something but I really dont know.

 

[Mister_Pister]

Ger rid - she's a psycho hose beast

awesome quote

I have issued her her ultimatum via text since she wont answer her phone, she can either choose a loner holiday in the sun or an argument...decisions decisions

 

[Mister_Pister]

She won't answer her phone ? how old is she ... 16 ?

oooh I'm annoyed with her now lol

yeah you and me both! The phone finally actually rings and then she doesnt answer it - the silent treatment absolutely does my head in. She doesnt even have the guts to stand up for herself which is a pretty sure sign her argument is weak

 

[Mister_Pister]

Im proper fuming with her now but the truth of the matter is ive never got on with anyone better in my entire life. Can chat for absolutely hours to her. But she is unreliable - says she will be places and then isnt - at least not until a few hours have passed. Its never been this bad before though; you'd think she'd make the effort for a holiday for christs sake.

 

[Mister_Pister]

Thanks guys at least you're making me feel like I did the right thing. Yeah mc_bob its completely baffling to me theres no logic to it what so ever. One things for certain though, I wont be getting on my flight from Gatwick in an hour and a half

 

[Mister_Pister]

just hope she will realise that and be able to look past the fact the police scared her mum which I think is the only thing she's clinging to. Of course I cant really tell since ive barely got 4 words of text out of her since the incident.

 

[Mister_Pister]

The msn message...

(04:45) Maz:
Why have the police turned up at my mam's!
(04:50) Maz:
My mam has been woke up at 4am and she's now in hysterics n thinkin iv been murdered or summit


The text....
U sent the police to my mothers at 4am who thought id been muredered or something! Did you not think of the **** you have caused my whole family

Does she not think of the **** she has caused me?

 

[Mister_Pister]

Are you sure that you hadn't agreed to meet at the airprot?

very

Flog her on ebay.

She's sounds like a nutt case mate and her mum aswell. "Give her one more for the road", the girlfriend that is, not the mum (unless she is hot)

Shes not hot but I would do it for revenge

 

[Mister_Pister]

Her ex is in middlesbrough and she absolutely hates him - I dont think thats it. Plus if she was why spend most of the day makin up stories about being on the motorway, seems a bit far fetched. But who knows its totally baffling it could be anything really

 

[Mister_Pister]

Lmao, your a Real Man

That text and MSN message just makes her look stupid, why is she getting annoyed at that, Wtf is that all about

MC_Bob

No idea. I hope she is now calming down and realising how retarded she is

 

[Mister_Pister]

Get back in contact with the parents to be honest... You must have SOME contact details? She's still in an unknown place. Appologise to mam for getting her up at 4am. I'll bet any money the mother isnt angry at you at all, and may even offer advice/shed some light.

To be honest though me ringing up and apologising to her is like admitting what I did was wrong - which it wasnt. I never actually got her contact details the police popped round so it would involve another call to them to try and get them to put me through to the ex directory number, think it would cause more hassle then its worth

 

[Mister_Pister]

Ring him up and ask him if she did the same thing to him.
If she did, then u know you have a nutta

He always used to beat her up and even worse etc although in those kind of relationships they have a hold on the other person. Im not entirely convinced its cheating to be honest, with him or anyone else because she might aswell of just done it on days we werent meeting up.

I think I agree with benneh though there is something else driving it - not sure what though

 

[Mister_Pister]

No-one with an ounce of love or respect would pull such a trick, regardless of whether they were cheating or not. Get shot br0, and kick her in the face on the way out.

P.S, the MSN message, was it from a mobile device or PC?. If it's a mobile device then WTF is she doing turning her mobile on to send you trash (probably listening to your voicemails in the process), if it's not from a mobile device then she's been somewhere that has a PC and a net connection, which lets face it is probably a blokes house.

Agree with first point. As for 2nd yeah it was from her mobile - so she managed to turn that on to have a go at me despite it being off all night. Strange..

 

[Mister_Pister]

Has the flight left yet?, i would be intrigued to find out whether of not she boards that flight alone (i'm thinking she wont).

Edit: Sorry if i sound a bit full on with this cheating crap dude, it just seems so logical .

I know it could be a possibility I just dont think she would do it in such a way as to leave so many weird clues. The flight goes about 10.30 or something - do you reckon if I ring the airport I can find if she checks in despite not having any exact flight details?

 

[Mister_Pister]

What about going to the airport yourself for peace of mind? Possible?

not now, too far away and no transport.

 

[Mister_Pister]

Perhaps speak to her mother and ask her if she has any idea where her daughter was last night and or why she left you in the dark.....

Would love to but as I said in a previous post this would involve another call to the police to get the number as its ex-dir and since its not really an emergency now I doubt they'd do it.