Am I being out of order?! *Relationship warning!!*

For safety, i'd delete her number off your phone, delete her email, set your mail client to block her email and ask your provider to block her number.
Completely cut off all contact with her to prevent drunken mishaps.
 
Don't forget to send those nekkid pics you took of her off to a top self publication, for a chuckle:p
 
Don't have the thread locked, it serves as a stark reminder of how not to let the girl twist you round her little finger to get what she wants..

You realise she's going to pull all the stunts in the book now to make you feel guilty.

I wouldn't delete her number just yet as having just the number come up on the phone when it rings instead of her name might have you answering it by accident.
Renaming her to LOSER is a good one, I like that.

but mainly the thread should stay so you can update us all with all the little mind games she WILL be playing over the next few weeks.
We will keep you strong and focused .. :D
 
we name people "DONT ANSWER" in our phones lol, the exs or the psychos, actually the exs usually fall into the psycho catagory.
yea keep the thread up, we can all use it, when we have problems that need some inspiration for solving
 
So you got rid of her then?

Currently im getting ignored by the lass i want but is nearly 2 hours away! I dont advise going to meet her for a night out and turning up out your face,take things the wrong way and sit with your head in your hands till the end of the night. Then the next day you make small talk and dont even say bye!(left my cousin to)

HOW THE **** AM I GONNA FIX THAT!!!

(had a hard week,family getting on ma ****,found out my gran has cancer thats quite far on.....so i kinda hit self destruct mode)
 
Just apologise and ask if you could put that behind yourselves as you'd drank a bit too much and you'v got some things going on in your life that you dont really want to talk about right now.

Be honest, although dont tell her exactly what is wrong, it is often used by people as a desperate excuse, I had a girlfriend before that tried to get back with me purely on the basis of her mum had cancer, and thats why she was possesive, though never really talked to me or anything.. ODD.
 
nokinidea said:
but mainly the thread should stay so you can update us all with all the little mind games she WILL be playing over the next few weeks. We will keep you strong and focused .. :D
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Lol cant see it going on weeks :eek: But if she does any crazy stunts like she's done in the past I will update the thread to keep me sane...
 
I take it you don't want to stay friends with her? I'd send her a text saying that you two won't be getting back together so it's better if you just keep our distance.
 
Didn't take too long...

Her mum just called me at her request (didnt recognise the number) to try and persuade me to give her till the end of the weekend to "end" things with her ex as apparently she doesnt want him and has made a mistake.

Nice feeling I have now knowing I've been sleeping with someone who's been regularly sleeping with someone else. Feeling a little sick thinking about it but there we go. At least I now know the truth and know she has been lying so well for the past few months. Have no regrets about getting rid of her now. Thank god I did or who knows how much longer it would have gone on for and god knows what I've caught.

Moral of the story: Always trust your instincts and listen to your mates as they're usually right!!!
 
LOL at getting her mum to call.
Trick No1 ;)
Now that is low...

Well done in staying away from the horrible witch
 
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"punch her in the ovaries"
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By far the funniest thing ive seen all week, im laid here with the tv on on my laptop n i just start cracking up... glad my mum aint here she would think im weird!!!

Class line though mate..

As for your situation, not to sound rude, you sound like a push over, i wouldnt let my ex anywer near a guiy she used to like, she wanted to go to the cinema with him coz i was working overtime a lot, i wouldnt let her, as i know what it would eventually lead to, giving her the opportunity gives her the temptation, and as a bf im sure you wont ask much of her, ask her to respect your wishes or simply move on dude, not worth it, if she cared she would be wrapped round you at any available opportunity.

gl dude.
 
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james07 - spot on really, if they wouldnt like you doing it you wouldnt do it right? so how can they expect you to let them do it if they know you wont like it. If your feelings dont mean that much to then then you may aswell leave them as a notch on your bedpost and nothing more, the relationship will go nowhere.
To be honest if my girlfriend did this atleast id have an excuse to dump her.. haha
 
Dump her and save yourself more pain. You're seriously even considering quitting your job and friends to move, when she's obviously way too close to her ex? End it now and tell her to stop contacting you. It sounds like she's playing you for a fool. You obviously don't trust her and she's pretty ****** up by the sounds of things.

Oh, and for the record Angry dragon > Spiderman.
 
Well still angry and last night did something that was incredibly stupid.

I dont want to hurt her directly as I really like her family, but as for him I couldnt care less. So after a few beers and still fuming I sent him an email saying exactly what I thought of him as at the time I thought I'd feel better. But alas its true what people said and the feeling only lasted a few minutes and it hasnt made me feel much better.

All was quiet until this morning when I found out that the email address I sent it to - [email protected] - wasn't actually his personal email address. I'd assumed as it was his company he would be using that address but alas no it isnt.

So as he came into work today it seems most of the people have seen the email and know exactly what I think of him. Needless to say I received abuse from the ex saying it was out of order I told him stuff but I only said the truth mixed in with a few choice words which would get me banned if I posted them.

No I dont feel big and I dont feel clever. Still feel crap, but imagining his face when he came into work this morning does raise a slight smile I have to admit. Wouldnt advise others to go contacting your ex's lover as it doesnt make you feel a whole lot better - but emailing it to everyone in his company is even worse!!!

Just had my number changed so she cant continue to abuse me about how she's now lost everything and is extremely embarassed to be seen in public up there because people will judge her - but I didnt mean to email his whole company in my defence. Beers + Anger = Stupidity.
 
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