Am I being out of order?! *Relationship warning!!*

In all the time I have visited these forums I have never replied to a relationship thread but this one takes the biscuit. She is using you and you already know it. Dump her and don't make allowances for her feelings because she isn't making any allowances for yours.
 
:O Cant believe this is still on the front page!! How embarassing :(

Well last night I called her and basically said its over and I'm out this weekend to find someone new. I'm not worried about not finding someone else - of course I will! Love is a stupid drug.

I dont like controlling people so am not going to tell her not to go. Lets face it - the moment you try and control someone they will just slip through your fingers really. Just told her that I'm not being paranoid as he's not just some random bloke. I've never been a paranoid person and she used to go out with bloke friends all the time and I never bothered!

Cue her calling this morning before work saying she has to go to the party as she wants to tell him that she doesnt love him anymore and get closure (hmm) and that she wants to meet her friends who she hasnt seen for a while (not falling for that either as if they're friends you can meet them anytime). Just told her that even if she does tell him face to face then they will just spend the whole night talking and drinking so its not going to stick anyway!!

So thanks for all the advice in here. I'm already looking forward to the weekend. Not feeling down at all really so I suppose deep down I already knew what was going on but just needed others to confirm it. Feels great though not having to wonder what shes upto at the moment and cant wait for the next person to come along but will enjoy being single again for a while. No worries and I dont have to tidy my room at weekends anymore!!

Cheers all (especially the O/T convo about spiderman, etc. Had me in stitches!!). Go back off topic if you want as that was entertaining!
 
Unbelievable mate, I hope you like sloppy second's course that’s what your getting and you know it!

On a serious note, shes round his house and there laughing at you - together!! :mad:

Show her your on another level, the grass wont be so green on the other side for her after a while!
 
Zefan said:
It's best to not even be gentle. Basically as soon as you're done throw her clothes out the room and say "Get the **** out". Guaranteed a good reaction :p
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However if this "one for the road" is done at her house, don't forget to "clean yourself up" on her bedroom curtains before walking out:p
 
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You're being played, totally. She wants to have her cake and eat it. She's had the chance to make a decision, proven she can't be trusted and doesn't appear to have any respect for your feelings. Ditch her.
 
Gilly said:
Erm, no offence, but WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING??

I don't know her, and I don't know you, but for gods sake she's taking the ****

It isn't paranoia if someone is screwing you over
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Quoted for the truth!

She really is a freak - cut your losses! (Even though it doesn't sound like you are losing much!)

Rich
 
mate, ive screwed my way through 100's of girls and had relationships. I know ladies like the back of my hand. Its simple...

She wants both of you. At the moment she has both of you. If she cant have you.... know one can....

end it. Move on. Forget about her as she sounds like a right ****whit!

FULL STOP.
 
Dude, she's clearly more interested in her ex. If it happened once it will happen again, get out and move on. You're never going to trust her with him, and she clearly isn't going to give him up, and she wont take you to a party with him... just give up on her.
 
drop it like its hot.


at first i thought give her a chance to change again on the basis that she'll remember her true feelings when shes cornered.


however then i thought what id do in that situation.
 
Jeez guys, read the whole thread :rolleyes: The OP has already posted to say he's dumped her!

Nice one matey - now get yourself on the town and have some single fun for a while!!
 
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