Women. (not a relationship thread)
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I didn't get it back for 2 weeks as you were busy playing BBR because he didnt let himself be walked all over?
he's his own person he's not her lapdog on a leash?
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we can all come up with examples. A few years ago a male family friend of ours was going through a very difficult relationship with his fiancee who was an alcoholic. She was violent, abusive, and was just a horrible person to be around because of her dependency. He spent 5 years with her, despite the fact that she slept with other people, hit him (breaking his nose on one occasion) and generally treated him like ****.
Why did he keep going back to her? We could do this all day, it's just so narrow minded to generalise unreasonable behaviour down to one gender rather than down to individuals. If people don't have enough self-respect to walk away when they are treated badly, then you probably don't want to be involved with them anyway.
Why did he keep going back to her? We could do this all day, it's just so narrow minded to generalise unreasonable behaviour down to one gender rather than down to individuals. If people don't have enough self-respect to walk away when they are treated badly, then you probably don't want to be involved with them anyway.
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Firstly, everyone should go back and read all of Kittens posts again - it'll save me quoting them all! 
They'll learn from their mistakes
As you said, you are only 21 so plenty of time yet!
They'll learn from their mistakes
As you said, you are only 21 so plenty of time yet!
It is so true. They toture themselves by hanging out with prats, complain that all men are terrible and stupid and then leave nice honest understanding guys in the dark.
Except that is complete and utter BULL. Unless girls ideas of exciting is not the dictionary definition.
Taking drugs, drunk driving, sleeping around, drunk fighting,etc., is not my idea of exciting!
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Firstly, everyone should go back and read all of Kittens posts again - it'll save me quoting them all!
They'll learn from their mistakes
One thing i wonder is why do they need to learn it for themselves ? Is it not clear and logical to them that what they are doing have been done by others many times and real life is not like the movies ? Surely everyone has friends or know someone has happened to them yet they need to see for themselves, but not once, twice, but multiple times until the clock hits mid-twenties (if they are lucky) before they realise that bad boys will always be bad boys.
Who said that they were anyone's idea of exciting?
Im not sure. in the sense "girls like nice exciting guys not nice boring guys"
Or is what Zef said correct? i only ask becuase appearently i fall into the nice boring catagory
I apparently fall into the boring category, despite beeing very active and sporty. I am a nutter for extreme sports, I ski to the max on mountains most people wouldn't beleive you could climb or ski and I'll do both after a night partying. I play around in the snow park on a snowboard . I rock climb every other weekend in the summer, with a lot of abseiling, repelling. I go downhill mountain biking, 2-3 times a week I go slack-lining in the summer. I have bungee jumped, paraglided, jumped out of planes, and this year I might do a ski base jump and luge. I have done Taekwondo for 5 yeras, jujitsu for 2. Surfed a load when I lived in CA. Some freinds are stunt pilots and I go out with them sometimes tearing about the alps, looking for glaciers to land on for some epic ski descents.
I live fort mountain based adrenline sports
I regularly go out to the cinema, bars and to clubs, salsa dancing, jazz festivals, movie festivals cooking competitions, mountain events, beach BBQs.
I play the guitar (electric and acoustic), played in a small band once, and was a roadee for another band.
I love to cook (my mum is a profesional chief and I was trained by her to cook for weddings) and enjoy fine wine and relaxed evenings. I am also very fond of romantic soirees.
I love to travel and experience new cities and cultures, new sports, new food and meet new people.
I am doing a PhD at one of the top univeristies in the world and have excelent career prospects.
I wouldn't consider myself boring. But I have been told I am a "nice guy", "we shoudl just be friends", "You will make a great husband for a lucky wife", "You deserve someone better than me".
Ok, so what does a girl find exciting?
There isn't one answer that can be given to that. What one person finds exciting could be comparable to watching paint dry for another.
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Firstly, everyone should go back and read all of Kittens posts again - it'll save me quoting them all!
They'll learn from their mistakes
One thing i wonder is why do they need to learn it for themselves ? Is it not clear and logical to them that what they are doing have been done by others many times and real life is not like the movies ? Surely everyone has friends or know someone has happened to them yet they need to see for themselves, but not once, twice, but multiple times until the clock hits mid-twenties (if they are lucky) before they realise that bad boys will always be bad boys.
Fine, so give some examples of what some women find exciting.
Not that I would ever change what I do or who I am for a girl. I am just interested to know what girls find exciting.
So far I have unpredictable- is this to counterbalance their chaotic hormone driven temperments?
GordyR may well be right and he always seems like a sound guy whenever I've spoken to him on here but then again the fact that he is actually model material probably doesn't hurt his chances too much either.
yea although i dont really agree with GordyR's comment, he does have it relatively easy being a fantastic looking guy - but he does work hard, fitness, profession, etc...
I wouldn't consider myself boring or dull, infact i can be damn right crazy at times, im told by a lot of girl im very funny and i have a lot of close female friends, more so then male but nothing ever happens because im the friend, im the nice guy - the amount of who turn round and say "i cant believe your single, i would snap you up" i just say "no you wouldn't - you;d go for that chav talking womaniser over there" lol
I said spontaneous would probably be a better way to describe it than unpredictable earlier on in the thread.
I don't really understand how you expect to be given examples when I've said that everyone is different. You could ask every female on this forum for a detailed run down on what they want in a guy and you'd probably still have no definitive answer.
see, just to complexify the image
Thanks
Well, it's kind of like asking what do all men want - although of course the answer to that is steak, beer and **** job.
I would gain some understanding and statistics with a sample though.
I really have no idea what women find exciting.