The dreaded ex......

Still feel a bit ****! But I very much like the use of the word doormat - rather apt. Im a big guy and generally confident, dont like the idea of people wiping their feet on me!

Still want to send her a goodbye message or something rather than just leave it in limbo! Almost seems like I like her more if I just leave it!

What would you do? message saying goodbye or not?

edit - well not goodbye as it sounds a little formal but you get what I mean.
 
Aloreth said:
Hey thanks all for the advice, Jamie in particular - everything youve said just makes sense!

Im not sure I can be arsed with texting/calling her at all - considering I aint heard a peep out of her for 10 days then I think its safe to assume she couldnt be bothered with being square with me!

Tis a shame really as we got on really well! I think thats the big ego hurter aint it - would love to know why!

Oh well!
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Hmm unless she's be hit by a bus that seems like she's a really nice person (sarcasm) - not even giving you an indication of what she's decided.. better off without her in my opinon.

I'd be tempted to give her a call and leave a voice mail if she doesn't answer. Just say that you're feeling in limbo and rather than continue in that way you've assumed that she's decided to go back to the other guy.

Short and to the point. No harsh words.
 
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If you go out tonight and shag someone, what are you gonna do if she tells you that she wants to be with you tomorrow? Don't you think that will be playing on your mind?

Just tell her straight that you're feeling messed around by her and that you're not going to let it carry on for much longer. If she cares, it'll give her the kick up the arse she needs.

Happy new year x
 
You know, some how, like many girls she will turn it around on you and make it your fault you didn't contact her. (but you tried).
 
Hey so I might have been a little weak and sent a message - at least I got a nice clear **** off replacing the 'she really likes you' messages her friends have been sending!
I dont know why I bother being a nice guy, when im a complete git to women it works much much better!

Hey ***,

Just figured I would wish you a happy New Year!

Erm….don’t really know what happened between us – you just kinda freaked out and disappeared – shame really! Hope you get whatever it is sorted out

Cya

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Happy New Year to you too! Sorry for freaking out, just had a lot going on lately. Hope you had a great Christmas and enjoyed the New Year celebrations. I'm still feeling a bit hungover - not good.

Anwyay, take care, see ya soon x
 
Just stop dealing with her, it totally isn't worth it. That text? That's the last time you'll ever have anything to do with her, if you have any sense.

I can only see you going into the 'friend' zone with this one if you decide to stick with it, I'm afraid.
 
Mohinder said:
Also to consider:
Why's he mental?
I've known a couple of girls who regularly turn blokes mental, then move on to the next victim.
Just a thought.
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:p
There speaks the voice of experience.
Loads of nice women out there mate just forget her & move on :)
 
Aloreth said:
Hey so I might have been a little weak and sent a message - at least I got a nice clear **** off replacing the 'she really likes you' messages her friends have been sending!
I dont know why I bother being a nice guy, when im a complete git to women it works much much better!

Hey ***,

Just figured I would wish you a happy New Year!

Erm….don’t really know what happened between us – you just kinda freaked out and disappeared – shame really! Hope you get whatever it is sorted out

Cya

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Happy New Year to you too! Sorry for freaking out, just had a lot going on lately. Hope you had a great Christmas and enjoyed the New Year celebrations. I'm still feeling a bit hungover - not good.

Anwyay, take care, see ya soon x
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Sooo she's got a lot going on but couldn't invite you to newyears or say anything. What a lousy person.
 
If you dont text asking her why you will always wonder why!?
the EXACT same thing happened to me but I was with her for 3years and then a text saying she dont wanna see me anymore. I've still not found out in 2years and although I've moved on and have a better GF I would still LOVE to know why...

Text asking her, if you dont you will regret it!
 
Random_23 said:
If you dont text asking her why you will always wonder why!?
the EXACT same thing happened to me but I was with her for 3years and then a text saying she dont wanna see me anymore. I've still not found out in 2years and although I've moved on and have a better GF I would still LOVE to know why...

Text asking her, if you dont you will regret it!
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To an extent I think thats why this knocked me for six - she went from saying that she loves me to just ignoring me in about 12 seconds flat!
I dont think I can be arsed.....plus I deleted her phone number and removed her as a friend on facebook so I have no way of contacting her!

Sod it, im feeling much better than I was when I created this thread, time to find someone nice!
 
As the old saying goes "The best way to get over a woman is to get on a new one" :D
(Applies to loose women too in that "the best way to get over one man is to get under another" ;) )
 
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