If your longterm partner cheated would you want to know?

See my husband (CliffyG) views a kiss the same as sex, I do too but for different reasons.

Nah...a kiss can happen in an instant, sex requires thought and planning so is definitely worse as far as the betrayal angle. Also a kiss can be pretty one sided sometimes, sex involves both parties making the conscious decision to make it happen
 
Nah...a kiss can happen in an instant, sex requires thought and planning so is definitely worse as far as the betrayal angle. Also a kiss can be pretty one sided sometimes, sex involves both parties making the conscious decision to make it happen

course it doesnt, iv been in such a state multiple times i could barely stand up and still managed to get laid, i doubt i was much of a kisser in those states. Sex can be spontanious, although im a northern monkey and when we're out on the lash we can find private areas quite easily to sneak off too, haha.
 
I want my friend to cheat on her boyfriend with me. Am I a bad person?

I am a bad person :( and it has resulted in her ceasing all contact with me - so I guess I deserve it eh? :(

Apologies for bringing up an old thread, but no friends are on msn and I am 120miles away from home... so OcUK must hear my thoughts!
 
I would like to know. Have a chat to find the underlying issue and then walk out the door and never turn back.

I live by" Hurt me once you wont get the chance to hurt me again"
 
Yes I would want to know. I could forgive it once but probably not a second time.... Unless it was all mutual and I knew and it was all rather kinky. (And the 3rd wheel was a girl!) In that case I wouldn't mind :).
 
Of course I'd want to know. If your partner cheats on you, it's a betrayal of trust and completely changes the basis of the relationship. There has to be something wrong for someone to cheat, and you can't do anything about that if you keep quiet.

What Vix said ;).
 
Yeah, because she wouldn't do it of her own will.
So naturally i'd have to cut the guys **** off with garden shears and whack a soldering iron in the wound.
 
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