'Tis a women thing really..

me: "so what would you like to do this weekend dear?"
her: "oh anything I don't mind it's up to you"
me: "we could go to (insert absolutely any suggestion you could think of here)
her: "no I don't want to do that!"

:rolleyes:
 
cosmogenesis said:
Men are mostly/more selfish than women but its not intentional, its just the way the mind works I suppose. Blokes tend to me clueless when it comes to clenliness, hence no cleaning in the home and even when they say they have they aint really. Blokes are lazier, think they are better drivers but crash more themselves and kill more people then women, have more fights, have really bad communication skills, really bad in the main but think its the other persons fault and often blame them and insult them calling them tick, stupid etc.

The list goes on and on and on. It aint that women are perfect but they are mainly more ordered, more sociable, less confrontational, better communicators and have a larger amount of emotional intelligence are better at teaching people it would seem.

So lets all just stick to the way it was and stop trying to be each other.
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I am living proof that contradicts all of what you have said though :\

The points about females made in this thread ring true every single time though, especially the whole guessing what youre thinking game :(
 
Captain Planet said:
me: "so what would you like to do this weekend dear?"
her: "oh anything I don't mind it's up to you"
me: "we could go to (insert absolutely any suggestion you could think of here)
her: "no I don't want to do that!"

:rolleyes:
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stop stealing my life at the weekend!! ;)

Seriously this happens every sodding one.
 
lol, no, just misunderstood. Not every woman is like I mention or every man but its the statistics, we cannot bring it down to individual cases.

I have worked in IT for 15 years now and the arrogance I would rather be right than happy attitude of men cannot be denied or maybe thats just geeks and engineering types.

Men feel more trapped then women especially at weekends. It tooks me years to learn so much stuff about my wife and the otherway around. Compromise is all and listening to, men any good at that I wonder ?
 
I am the kind of guy who just gets over a mood, or something then I am fine. To then be asked if I got over it puts me RIGHT BACK in said mood and it does my head in.

Why do you have to remind me of the mood I was in now I am fine! Genuinely annoys the hell out of me, like I am being asked as some kind of an acknowledgement of being in a mood, that I got over like I am 5 years old or something.

Arrrgh!

Also, when they try to force me out of a mood and tell me to smile.... srsly... just do not. I'm not a woman, I am not tactically moody, if I am moody, I am. I wont pretend smile, or pretend happy. Forcing me makes me worse!
 
cosmogenesis said:
It aint that women are perfect but they are mainly more ordered, more sociable, less confrontational, better communicators and have a larger amount of emotional intelligence are better at teaching people it would seem.
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More sociable? Like talking to everyone, everywhere, every minute of everyday about what you did when you got up in the morning from details/times/dates of when you had a shower, what you ate, how long it took to work, the weather, your kids daily antics, etc.

Less confrontational? The only person in my life that has been so physically absuve was one of my ex's, a female, christ, never seen a guy like that with me hitting me and being aggressive like that.

Better communicators? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? Every single MAN on this forum who's dated a women has said you cannot for the life of you, say what you want or need, ever. You're physcopathic mind ********.


Larger amount of emotional intelligence?
What? You mean you cry every day?


I agree though, some guys..a lot of guys are messy...
 
Sin_Chase said:
I am the kind of guy who just gets over a mood, or something then I am fine. To then be asked if I got over it puts me RIGHT BACK in said mood and it does my head in.

Why do you have to remind me of the mood I was in now I am fine! Genuinely annoys the hell out of me, like I am being asked as some kind of an acknowledgement of being in a mood, that I got over like I am 5 years old or something.

Arrrgh!

Also, when they try to force me out of a mood and tell me to smile.... srsly... just do not. I'm not a woman, I am not tactically moody, if I am moody, I am. I wont pretend smile, or pretend happy. Forcing me makes me worse!
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Flip sake cheer up! :p
 
"Nothing is wrong" eventually esculates into "IF YOU DON'T KNOW, I'M NOT GOING TO TELL YOU."

Great logic in that one, yet is pulled out at least once a week.
 
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-Ad- said:
Her: Put on gone in 60 secs, casino royale etc.
Me: No watch some of my other films you haven't seen.
Her: No I want to wtach one of them.
Me: We watched both of them last weekend, watch something you haven't seen:
Her: Ok then ! What do you want to watch ?
Me: Try this (eastern promises), then lists many many others.
Her: No, you always pick films I don't want to watch.
Me: Have the remote Im off for L4D.
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just showed this to my gf...

her reply..

thats off someone else...???!!!!
tell them they need to get their girlfriends on that, i want to speak to someone else who suffers from coming second to L4D and that other crap you play!!
 
With me it’s the sitting there with a long face and you know there is something up:

Are you ok?
Yes
Are you sure?
Yes

One hour later with an even longer face.

Are you ok?
Yes
Well what is it?
I can’t say.
Tell me?
No, there is nothing wrong.

Another hour passes.

Well there is something, come and sit by me and I'll tell you.
 
Dkore-DeX said:
My woman is always doing this!! Drives me insane. She "tidies" and then when I ask where my stuff is she can't even find it herself.

I tell her to leave my stuff alone and I will tidy it but no, she moves it. If i did it to her stuff, it would kick off.
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The reason we still go ahead and move it is because although you've said you will tidy it yourself you never blinking do! Half an hour later the crap is still sitting everywhere.

simulatorman said:
With me it’s the sitting there with a long face and you know there is something up:

Are you ok?
Yes
Are you sure?
Yes

One hour later with an even longer face.

Are you ok?
Yes
Well what is it?
I can’t say.
Tell me?
No, there is nothing wrong.

Another hour passes.

Well there is something, come and sit by me and I'll tell you.
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Here is a secret, if I refuse to tell my boyfriend why I am in a mood it's normally because it's something stupid and I know I am being irrational, so rather than have the pee taken out of me I will sulk for a bit and then I'll either tell you when I can see the funny side or get over it
 
Why can't one women explain why they do that?

Not explain what's wrong, multiple times, then tell us, then blame it on the fact we should know

Please, enlighten us.

loopylou said:
The reason we still go ahead and move it is because although you've said you will tidy it yourself you never blinking do! Half an hour later the crap is still sitting everywhere.
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Christ 30 minutes and you give up, learn some patience! :)
 
ChrisJSY said:
Most of what they do is purposely built into their head to annoy us directly, face to face.

Anyway, it's gone beyond that now. I just can't be bothered with women in a relationship any more, they just really get on my nerves and try change me all the time
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This is the truth. Women always think they can change you for their 'better'.
 
ChrisJSY said:
Why can't one women explain why they do that?

Not explain what's wrong, multiple times, then tell us, then blame it on the fact we should know

Please, enlighten us.




Christ 30 minutes and you give up, learn some patience! :)
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It may be half an hour for you, but we have been building up to tidy for at least a couple of days ... we want to dust and hover around your crap and get the cleaning over and done with and get on with more interesting things, not sit around waiting until you can be bothered to move it so we can finish the cleaning

:)
 
loopylou said:
It may be half an hour for you, but we have been building up to tidy for at least a couple of days ... we want to dust and hover around your crap and get the cleaning over and done with and get on with more interesting things, not sit around waiting until you can be bothered to move it so we can finish the cleaning

:)
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Why not just keep things tidy all the time? Works for me.
 
loopylou said:
It may be half an hour for you, but we have been building up to tidy for at least a couple of days ... we want to dust and hover around your crap and get the cleaning over and done with and get on with more interesting things, not sit around waiting until you can be bothered to move it so we can finish the cleaning

:)
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Translates to.

You've been on your backside for days before you bothered to clean and you moan when it takes him more than 30mins.

I'm mean, I know... but you make your excuses sound so bad.

Building up to tidy? what does that even MEAN?
 
bledd. said:
just showed this to my gf...

her reply..

thats off someone else...???!!!!
tell them they need to get their girlfriends on that, i want to speak to someone else who suffers from coming second to L4D and that other crap you play!!
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Haha, she needs to be learned !

L4D offers the perfect way to take out your anger :D
 
simulatorman said:
With me it’s the sitting there with a long face and you know there is something up:

Are you ok?
Yes
Are you sure?
Yes

One hour later with an even longer face.

Are you ok?
Yes
Well what is it?
I can’t say.
Tell me?
No, there is nothing wrong.

Another hour passes.

Well there is something, come and sit by me and I'll tell you.
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An example of womens superior communication skills:rolleyes:
 
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