How scary is the L-word, really?

I say hurl. If you blow chunks and he comes back, he's yours. If you spew and he runs, it was never meant to be...
 
DanTheMan said:
I take it that it's just me that isn't really arsed about the whole 'saying I love you' thing?

Surely it's the experiences you share together and the things you go through that actually show your love?
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if you say it a lot to your friends etc they're just 'words'. if they dont say it often you know they mean it. :)
 
I always know my girlfriends love me when they can pick the blackheads off my back without complaining. Thats REAL love right there.
 
i met a girl about 3 weeks ago, spent first 2 weeks together which was cool but she seems very obsessive and very "in my face" i backed off a bit last week then on sunday she told me she loved me!

i ran away! i wasnt after a serious relationship! now shes texting me non stop but ive already told her how it is!


its only scary depending on the situation ur in! she obviously had a lot more feelings for me then i did for her!
 
A Doris says Love to me that isn't my Ma or Sister & I Leg it sharpish. I much prefer a woman to say She likes being around me etc. Much more acceptable & not the slightest hint of boiling any bunnys, I Like Bunnys.
 
My ex was scared to tell me, tooke her a month. Needless to say I did too at that time :P

Allthough a month b4 we broke up she did tell me she loved me but didn't mean it. :(

Women. PSSHHH!
 
Its been said to me twice only the second time was it mutual, the first time was completely weird and out of the blue in front of other people. I didn't want to lie so just changed the subject :/ was proper awkward. That relationship was over in about 2 weeks.
 
I think it should only scare you if (i) you don't want to hear it, or (ii) you don't want to say it. Assuming both of these points are not the case, it's a pretty good place to be :)
 
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I think the l word is thrown around way too much, and has lost all meaning to some people, the same with the word hate.

but scary can be depends how much you mean it and if you hope/know the other person loves you back or what their feelings are for that matter.
 
I like my boyfriend to say it to me, every now and again, he doesn't really like saying it much though, says it loses it's meaning. We didn't say it until a good few months in x
 
Vita said:
I tell my other half nearly at every chance I speak to her I love her. I should cut it down but I can't help the way I feel. She doesn't need to say it to me, as what she went through for me, is enough for me to understand on how much she does.

Love is poison if not used right, but when it is, best feeling in the world. :cool:
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I say it to my wife pretty much every day, and she says it to me. we've been together for 6 years now and we still miss each other during the day when we're at work

Darkst4r said:
I say hurl. If you blow chunks and he comes back, he's yours. If you spew and he runs, it was never meant to be...
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i think this is quite true, if you can be around someone who is ill and still want to be with them when they're better it says something about the relationship.
 
I told my wife I loved her after 2 weeks of meeting her. :o

That was 9 years ago. :cool:

Not scary at all, well not now anyway.
 
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