Time to pour my heart out...

antijoke · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:33

malc30 said:
Ask her if there's any chance of One for the road.

I was thinking more along the lines of 'spiderman' but I remember that didn't work out too well for someone else.

jas72 · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:35

wow bad news.

I think if I had to split with the wife I'd have to bump her off or it will be Kramer v Kramer for the kids.

BloomerzUK · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:36

Sorry about what has happened dude, I just came out of relationship, but not with the circumstances your under, so I respect you for going through it with such a cool manner.

Hope everything works out for you in the end.

Ivan Drago · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:36

anticonscience said:
I also want to get the most amount of time spent with my boys as possible before we eventually don't live together anymore, it's completely screwed my mind.

You talk like you're not going to see your children again. Make sure those kids don't grow up without a Dad. You have legal rights and just do what you can to be amicable with that woman because all that matters to you now should be your kids.

Women come and go - you may not be able to change the way she feels about you but you are bonded by blood to your kids. Don't surrender them.

mac1st3 · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:37

anticonscience said:
I was thinking more along the lines of 'spiderman' but I remember that didn't work out too well for someone else.

Superman instead?

Tonyator · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:38

anticonscience said:
I was thinking more along the lines of 'spiderman' but I remember that didn't work out too well for someone else.

If anything, I'd ask if she'll let you 'Gorilla' her. More hilarity than a 'Spiderman'.

BloomerzUK · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:38

Ivan Drago said:
You talk like you're not going to see your children again. Make sure those kids don't grow up without a Dad. You have legal rights and just do what you can to be amicable with that woman because all that matters to you now should be your kids.

Women come and go - you may not be able to change the way she feels about you but you are bonded by blood to your kids. Don't surrender them.

Very good words Ivan.

Cosmic182 · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:39

I cant really say much to cheer you up

I thought i was feeling pain of losing my ex of 14 months, and i tried everything too

and knowing shes now with someone else ) I feel some of your pain

....I truly hope you get to see your kid's as much as possible tho.... they look adorable

chin up tho, You cant of been happy argueing so much and hurting

so eventually you will be happy without her, Your 2 kids matter the most and theyll always want/need their dad so you have everything to aim for just as much as before

and more !

Hug

Marky · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:40

Sorry to hear that buddy

MrKeeno · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:42

You may find a week or two cooling off will sort it all out. Hopefully.

antijoke · 30 Sep 2009 at 21:43

I guess I am being too hard on myself thinking they wont want anything to do with me because I'm not living with them.

Ivan Drago said:
Make sure those kids don't grow up without a Dad. You have legal rights and just do what you can to be amicable with that woman because all that matters to you now should be your kids.

Women come and go - you may not be able to change the way she feels about you but you are bonded by blood to your kids. Don't surrender them.

I am going to be the dad they deserve and be there for them whenever they need me and they will know I love them more than anyone else in the world and I am there for them whenever they need me.

diverse180 · 30 Sep 2009 at 22:00

Damn...sorry to hear that mate

And in the hope it raises the slightest of smiles...

antijoke · 30 Sep 2009 at 22:03

That got a very big LOL. Thanks.

diverse180 · 30 Sep 2009 at 22:04

You're more than welcome

singist · 30 Sep 2009 at 22:34

Always will be a ****e time but it really is the kids who need support ...

As for you, ..... you will get over it (already planning trips abroad) etc

You'll live and probably find someone else but think of how the children feel and talk it over with them ...... dad's not gonna go away for ever etc

good luck.

antijoke · 30 Sep 2009 at 22:37

The trip abroad is paid for by the company I work for and was organised before any of this reared its ugly head.

Von Smallhausen · 30 Sep 2009 at 22:39

malc30 said:
No bother it's Pasty smashing season for you my son.

Wolf11 · 30 Sep 2009 at 22:41

Sorry to hear that-all the best

PaulStat · 30 Sep 2009 at 22:46

Sorry to hear that, how old are your two lads if you don't mind me asking?

Von Smallhausen · 30 Sep 2009 at 23:13

Have some Bombay TV. Hope they cheer you up.

First Date As A New Man.

Randy Wee Devil.