Is it shallow to like a girl based on her appearance?

[Roubini]

Love is inherently utilitarian in my opinion. Therefore, it is by consequence, inherently selfish.

Yes.

An observation: When someone acts purely out of self-interest, we consider that despicable. When two people act purely in the interest of the couple (ie two people in love) we consider that a beautiful expression of humanity.

Thoughts?

 

[arc@css]

Attractiveness pulls you in, personality keeps you there.

Summed up perfectly.

 

[britboy4321]

To the OP: There is a reason 99% of the women on tv shows are fit -- because men and women are more interested in seeing them and what they have to say.

If Willow was played by a 18 stone heffer the 'buffy' programme would become a joke within about 5 seconds. Just the way of the world ..

 

[JodieO]

In my opinion, yes it is shallow, plenty of men and women that are like it though. I tend to try and avoid those though, far too self absorbed for my taste usually.

 

[[TW]Fox]

In my opinion, yes it is shallow, plenty of men and women that are like it though. I tend to try and avoid those though

You avoid men who like girls who look good?

Eh!?

Are you single?

 

[JodieO]

You avoid men who like girls who look good?

Eh!?

Are you single?

Sorry I worded that badly, I meant I try to avoid shallow people, whether that's men or women

 

[Fuzz]

If you can't get wood at what you are looking at it's not going to be a very long relationship

 

[fringey]

Can always spot the motor's regulars when Fox posts.

why does every thread get derailed when fox posts, too many Fox fanboys, its disgusting

 

[Castiel]

pictures plssss

while we wait

She is ugly.

 

[No1newts]

She is ugly.

Her face does seem a little blokish. Makes me think tranny

 

[fizzle-187]

You need both tbh.

 

[doiks14]

She is ugly.

fine... I'll have her then

 

[RDM]

She is ugly.

While I can quite possibly understand "I do not find her attractive" I think it is a bit of a leap to say she is ugly.

 

[danza]

fine... I'll have her then

Whoa, hats off to you, but I'd take the bullet for you just to show how awesome I am.

 

[fizzle-187]

She is ugly.

Yeah thats because you're gay.

 

[[TW]Fox]

why does every thread get derailed when fox posts, too many Fox fanboys, its disgusting

Until your post how on earth has this thread been derailed

What a totally weird thing to say?

 

[OriginalJonty]

No. Everyone does it and if someone says they don't then they're a liar.

 

[ElvisFan]

I won't date a woman with thick ankles. Shallow? Maybe.

 

[marl]

If a girl has a looks how could you not be attracted to her? Of course, there's a lot more to it than that but I think that the first thing that both men and women look for are the looks.

 

[Tonyator]

Attractiveness pulls you in, personality keeps you there.

This oh and...

Looks aren't everything but you can't fap over personality.