Soldato
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Maybe you came across as a charmless idiot in the e-mail, perhaps seemed like you were shirking responsibility? Either way its not the way things should be done.
I wouldn't recommend an official route of complaint, just speak to him in person
I wish I had that sense of thinking. I just can't do it though, I care about what others think of me! And I hate giving people a reason to dislike me, or just generally not getting on with someone.
[TW]Fox;17606019 said:And reporting somebody to HR is going to help the OP become popular err.. how exactly?
[TW]Fox;17606019 said:And reporting somebody to HR is going to help the OP become popular err.. how exactly?
"There goes 'Old Crashy' again"![]()
Its easy for me, I don't spend my working time with anybody in particular, I have a very solitary job.I wish I had that sense of thinking. I just can't do it though, I care about what others think of me! And I hate giving people a reason to dislike me, or just generally not getting on with someone.
I would file a grievance and raise a security issue about him not logging off his workstation - depends on local requirements.
This.Why dont you just drop in the odd "you know me im a charmless idiot", he will get paranoid thinking you and the boss are taking the pee out of him and you can pee yourself with laughter at that pathetic *****.
Worry about popularity, or potential bullying at work? Hmmm...
"(COMPANY NAME) strives to maintain a workplace
free of harassment and sensitive to the diversity
of our employees. Any form of harassment or any
conduct that has the potential of creating a hostile
or discriminatory work environment is strictly
prohibited. Therefore, the company prohibits
employees from using, accessing, storing or
transmitting voice or electronic information over
its communication systems in ways that could be
found to be harassing, disruptive, offensive to others,
or harmful to morale. For example, the display or
transmission of sexually explicit or any racial or
sexual images, messages, and cartoons is strictly
prohibited. Other such misuse examples include, but
are not limited to: receiving or sending messages
with ethnic or religious slurs, racial comments, offcolour
jokes, or anything that may be construed
as harassment, showing disrespect, defamatory or
disparaging to others."
I hope you aren't posting on ocuk from there!
[TW]Fox;17606408 said:Get a grip.
Nobody has harrased you. Nobody has walked up to you and called you lazy.
Two people had a private conversation, perhaps foolishy, and you read it.
What are you going to do next, advocate thought police incase somebody dares mutter to a mate in the corridor 'Damn that Colbaker, he's a bit of a...'?
I would be far more bothered about wondering what I'd done to make them think that and trying to put it right than seeing which bit of the company policy I could get them into trouble over![]()
I get called far worse than that in emails on a daily basis. Some of them are even sent actually to me.
I couldn't care less. I view work only as a device for earning money (and from getting away from nattering wife). I don't engage in it personally.