You think him spending £3k on something he doesn't want (a 12 year old Focus, no less!) is a better idea than him spending £4.75k on something he does want?
If he had changed from a MK4 Golf, no one would have batted an eye-lid, but as it was an S3 then it would seem people are offended by this apparent downgrade. In terms of fun - these C2s aren't bad and I'd much rather be driving these down some B-roads than an ageing S3. Sure, they are no Saxo/106, but they are still fun, chuckable little cars in the grand scheme of things.
This S3 was clearly a money pit, and I don't think this change needs to be criticised.
A 12 year old Focus for 3k.. are you smoking something? I looked at a 2004 (that's 6 years for the mathematically challenged) 1.8 Edge with 6 Ford stamps and 20k on the clock for £3200, I made an offer of £2800 and waiting for the bloke to call me and hopefully take me up on it. Anyway it was a suggestion, rather than posting a facepalm.