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"Yeh that sounds good, this may sound silly but shall we make it a date?"

Sounds cheesy I know but try it and see. If she is willing to go on a date with you then its all good. Chances are that she is already bored of waiting for you to make a move.
 
Looking at where things might go wrong in the future leads to madness. Just ask her out and deal with everything else later.
 
Text her a picture of your penis with a little bow tie on it, if she doesn't reply its bad news I'm afraid. :( But if she does reply better get yourself down to the beauty salon to get your crack and sack done. :D
 
Put a deposit on her NOW!!!







Just realise after writing this that someone could draw some pathetic innuendo from it so to clarify, I mean deposit as in to reserve :)
 
Text her a picture of your penis with a little bow tie on it, if she doesn't reply its bad news I'm afraid. :( But if she does reply better get yourself down to the beauty salon to get your crack and sack done. :D

Lol. I have a gut feeling if OP did that, it would not bode well and he would probably be branded as a pervert on LOLFacebook. :p
 
Update!

I met up with the girl but she also invited a friend to where we went :\ So couldn't really speak to her about it.

Fail

Went out on Friday night and pulled an 18 year old who now wants to go to the cinema with me.

Possible Win

Ahhhhhhhh, what to do! I can either go with this girl or ring the girl who I really like and ask her out on a 'date'. Something I would much rather do face to face.

Back to square one, better if new girl is hot, worse if not
 
You're probably in the dreaded Friend Zone by now.

When you spend a lot of time with a girl and never do anything more than act friendly you're basically condemning yourself to be seen by her as just that, a friend. Women tend to live through their emotions a lot more than men, and if you're not creating any kind of attraction or arousal in them then you're going to be looked at in a completely platonic way. There is simply no way you can logically convince a girl to be feel attraction for you, regardless of how you feel. Risking chasing her away by telling her is infinitely preferable than doing nothing and beating yourself up about it, and it's not fair on her if she just sees you as a mate and you harbour feelings that will probably bubble up in some sort of embarrassing outburst down the line. If she doesn't see you that way then what are you ruining by telling her? Your fairytale future together? That kind of speculation and expectation isn't conductive to happiness.

It's allllways better to communicate your interest early on so you're not wasting each others time and she knows you find her attractive and you avoid the classic 'friend who wants more' scenario, which is depressingly common. The window of opportunity exists, and it's never open for long.

Anyway, rather than delivering some sort of 'I really like you!' speech, take her out again, be flirty, initiate light physical contact, see how she reacts, and if it's going well tell her you want to play Dr. and Patient, it's time for her medicine so she should close her eyes, then kiss her.

Also never utter the 'deserves better' thing, self-belief goes a LONG way.

This needs to be pinned and everyone with girl issues (me included) need to refer to it!

Nicely said dude. Im kinda in the same boat as OP and what you said has got me thinkin..
 
I would still try going out with the girl you've known for a while, you obviously like her and have a lot in common you just didn't get a good opportunity last time. No offense but meeting a girl in a bar when you've had a few drinks is not the same as knowing and liking this other girl.

Definitely try to ask this girl out and if it don't work out you have plan B ;)
 
Get it on with the 18 year old.
Ask out the other one and see what happens.

If she says no, keep going with the 18 year old.
If she says yes, go with both or dump the 18 yo.
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profit
 
Update!

I met up with the girl but she also invited a friend to where we went :\ So couldn't really speak to her about it.

Went out on Friday night and pulled an 18 year old who now wants to go to the cinema with me.

Ahhhhhhhh, what to do! I can either go with this girl or ring the girl who I really like and ask her out on a 'date'. Something I would much rather do face to face.

Go out with the one you pulled. simple as. Have fun :)

You were overthinking the other one. Its a woman less thought more action :p

Next time you are hanging with that other one, be flirty, let your behaviour lead up to you kissing her. ACTION not words. Words = logic blah blah blah..fail.

When did logic ever work with a woman.

Oh and yeah

Originally Posted by Somnambulist
You're probably in the dreaded Friend Zone by now.

When you spend a lot of time with a girl and never do anything more than act friendly you're basically condemning yourself to be seen by her as just that, a friend. Women tend to live through their emotions a lot more than men, and if you're not creating any kind of attraction or arousal in them then you're going to be looked at in a completely platonic way. There is simply no way you can logically convince a girl to be feel attraction for you, regardless of how you feel. Risking chasing her away by telling her is infinitely preferable than doing nothing and beating yourself up about it, and it's not fair on her if she just sees you as a mate and you harbour feelings that will probably bubble up in some sort of embarrassing outburst down the line. If she doesn't see you that way then what are you ruining by telling her? Your fairytale future together? That kind of speculation and expectation isn't conductive to happiness.

It's allllways better to communicate your interest early on so you're not wasting each others time and she knows you find her attractive and you avoid the classic 'friend who wants more' scenario, which is depressingly common. The window of opportunity exists, and it's never open for long.

God's Honest Truth.
 
How out of bounds is ringing the girl I really like and asking her out on a date? Every day that goes pass is a chance of someone else taking her!
 
Ask the better girl out, then fall back to the 18 year old if the first part falls through.

I see no problem :p?
 
Every day that goes pass is a chance of someone else taking her!

I had a plan all devised though lol, cinema > drive her home > tell her in the car.

so you want to corner her, put her on the spot and blurt out your endless love for her......

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What? Just ring her and see what she's doing at the weekend, say you'd like to take her on a date because you like her, etc etc.
 
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