Yep, 5 years of posting here and not one 'OMFG, guess what this ****ing bitch has done now!!' thread from me. I think one is due.
Ok, straight into it then. I'll keep it short.
My girlfriend has a mate that recently spilt up with her fella. He cheated, stole money from her old man and a whole host of other sins I don't know about or want to know about.
Now, my girlfriend and this girl has been hanging out a lot recently. She's hurting and looking for shoulders to cry on, my girlfriend offered hers. Naturally I encouraged this as it's a nice thing to do and hope there will be shoulders for me to cry on in the future, should I need it.
This girl being single (and hot), she is out on the pull (no, you cannot have the number) at least 5 times a week, undoubtedly prowling for rebound guys. Fine, we've all done it.
The problem however is this, my girlfriend is tagging along everywhere, fighting off the hordes of horny toads her mate actively attracts. Now, having been with her 7 years, I trust her, really, 110%. ....... until about 6 hours ago.
She came from a night out and picked an argument over something silly. In her anger, the real reason came out. She's not happy, things have stagnated, things aren't exciting, etc. Yes I know, she sees her mate living it up and she cannot do the same, but her demeanour really concerned me. I've seen her so angry at me in the past that she happily would've shot me if she had a gun handy, but this time was different. She seemed completely detached looking at me as if I was just some random ****** that stole 7 years of her life she cannot get back.
I have not been a perfect boyfriend and I know it, but the things she threw in my face went off like gun shots. Stuff that literally happened years ago, thing I have long forgotten was dusted off and paraded in front of me.
Was a big 'WTF' moment for me and I tried cooling things down. She went to bed with a look that would've scared an adder and said that we'll talk tomorrow, but that there probably 'isn't any point'.
So ... now I don't know. For once, intelligent thought fails me. I'd rather have both my legs amputated before I lose her, but this girl seemed different and hit me from angles she's never done before and hell-bent on a path very unfamiliar to me.
When she wakes up and still says these things ... what's a guy to do? And please, no wise-ass comments. Not today. Please.
Ok, straight into it then. I'll keep it short.
My girlfriend has a mate that recently spilt up with her fella. He cheated, stole money from her old man and a whole host of other sins I don't know about or want to know about.
Now, my girlfriend and this girl has been hanging out a lot recently. She's hurting and looking for shoulders to cry on, my girlfriend offered hers. Naturally I encouraged this as it's a nice thing to do and hope there will be shoulders for me to cry on in the future, should I need it.
This girl being single (and hot), she is out on the pull (no, you cannot have the number) at least 5 times a week, undoubtedly prowling for rebound guys. Fine, we've all done it.
The problem however is this, my girlfriend is tagging along everywhere, fighting off the hordes of horny toads her mate actively attracts. Now, having been with her 7 years, I trust her, really, 110%. ....... until about 6 hours ago.
She came from a night out and picked an argument over something silly. In her anger, the real reason came out. She's not happy, things have stagnated, things aren't exciting, etc. Yes I know, she sees her mate living it up and she cannot do the same, but her demeanour really concerned me. I've seen her so angry at me in the past that she happily would've shot me if she had a gun handy, but this time was different. She seemed completely detached looking at me as if I was just some random ****** that stole 7 years of her life she cannot get back.
I have not been a perfect boyfriend and I know it, but the things she threw in my face went off like gun shots. Stuff that literally happened years ago, thing I have long forgotten was dusted off and paraded in front of me.
Was a big 'WTF' moment for me and I tried cooling things down. She went to bed with a look that would've scared an adder and said that we'll talk tomorrow, but that there probably 'isn't any point'.
So ... now I don't know. For once, intelligent thought fails me. I'd rather have both my legs amputated before I lose her, but this girl seemed different and hit me from angles she's never done before and hell-bent on a path very unfamiliar to me.
When she wakes up and still says these things ... what's a guy to do? And please, no wise-ass comments. Not today. Please.
