Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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Apparently she didn't get the message I sent asking her out again, but had been thinking about what she'd say if I did.

She apologised profusely and said she wished there was as I'm lovely and funny and handsome etc etc etc but didn't want to pursue it any further.

Shame as she really floated my boat! Ahh well...
 
Am i late in starting the internet dating scene?? Anyway had my first date last week. Haha that was eventful to say the least ;)
 
What happened then!?

I can't believe people will end a relationship via text. I will at least ring, but preferably in person!
 
MisChief said:
I've had it by text as well, one guy didn't even bother to end it and just decided to ignore me and delete me off fb :rolleyes: couldn't be bothered to find out why though. Oh well, their loss :D
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Some people are a complete joke... But being deleted of fb. You know there is something seriously wrong then dont you :P
 
milgo said:
What happened then!?

I can't believe people will end a relationship via text. I will at least ring, but preferably in person!
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I was quite shocked to be honest, I thought things were going so well, she was even asking me if I'd get married in a church...

I've honestly never felt this strongly about anyone before, but she wants to be single and can't promise she wont see anyone else, I even asked her that I'd rather know if it was over because I would rather just get over it.

she even told me she'd never let me down ever which I believed like an Idiot.

Honestly and truly, if she came back I would give her a second chance as I believe in second chances but anything beyond that I would feel like an idiot.

I really needed someone in my life at the minute as I litterally have nobody to go and see or nothing to look forward too, don't think I can continue being friends.

Why are girls so callous, not that I'm saying they all are, just the ones I meet. I tell them I don't do short term relationships to which they say it's ok then bugger me over.
 
Sinny said:
I really needed someone in my life at the minute as I litterally have nobody to go and see or nothing to look forward too
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I know it sounds a little mean/gay but no one in a relationship likes to know that :( its the most terrifying thing to be told/position to end up in.

But on the plus the internet will always love you!
 
secretspy said:
I've had it by text and MSN. No one seems to have the balls to do it in person.
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Lol how old are they!? I got dumped on msn when I was 14.

Sinny that sucks. I guess at the time she may have felt those things. Maybe she felt you needed to hear that if you were feeling low. Unfortunately some people do that :/

I think pingwing might be on the Mark. Perhaps it got a little intense? Some people don't have the capacity to deal with those emotions. It isn't necessarily a reflection on you.
 
Having such a hard time with finding an actual decent girl. Terrible luck on POF, hardly get any replies and if they reply saying they want to talk..they never reply back the next day, don't get that???

I went on a date almost 2 weeks ago with this great girl. She text and called me quite a lot up to the date. Then basically half way through the date she tells me she doesn't find me massively attractive and just wants to be friends as she doesn't think she'll like me more than that. I honestly wanted to leave at that point..

Weird thing is she was showing signs of flirting and we were talking for 2/3 hours none stop about anything. I was making her laugh a lot, she kept giving me compliments about how funny, interesting and sweet I was. So I thought it was going somewhere until she told me she doesn't fancy me..

But then she offered to go to Nando's and pay so I glady accepted even though I didn't want to be there anymore..who am I to deny free chicken? lol

But yeah definitely incredibly depressing, I thought this girl was different. She is a nice girl and everything but she hasn't contacted me since the date even though she was worried and told me not to delete her off FB and ignore her texts/calls..I was like I won't..but has she contacted me since? Nope..

Girls liking me comes rarely so I probably get my hopes up everytime I remotely come close to dating a girl. Then get dropped like a tonne of bricks then I go into depression mode.

Girls in my generation are for the most part..unstable or confused about what they want. They don't know what they want!!! They all want a perfect 10/10 guy who's tall, good looking and rich..

There are also only a few girls who are actually decent from what I've seen. The majority of girls are chavs, overweight, stupid, slutty, arrogant etc..

Ugh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Rossuk89;21084246 There are also only a few girls who are actually decent from what I've seen. The majority of girls are chavs said:
yep.......

I have high standards also, I don't get how on the mutual meet me I message them and they don't reply..........

I just let a girl with a kid down today after chatting a while-said I couldn't be involved with someone with a KID

Me:

[If I'm being totally honest, I only just noticed you have a 1 year old, not sure how I didn't notice this the first time around....so I have to ask, what exactly are you looking for?x Not thinking too ahead, but I'm not experienced in relationships and the prospect of dating a girl with a 1 year old is a bit daunting. You seem like a nice girl though and I'd be up for a coffee either way, always up for meeting new people, romantically involved or not x]

her:

Well if i was seeing with someone i wouldnt want them to involved with Jacob at all until it got serious and even then Jacob's dad has him every weekend so they wouldnt see him at all.

But I understand, it's been nice talking to you x
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Rossuk89 said:
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If you don't feel comfortable just being strictly platonic friends with her, I would cut her off and move on. It's best not to dwell on these things; if they say they aren't interested, they aren't interested.

Plenty of fish in the sea, as they say...
 
apeZ said:
If you don't feel comfortable just being strictly platonic friends with her, I would cut her off and move on. It's best not to dwell on these things; if they say they aren't interested, they aren't interested.

Plenty of fish in the sea, as they say...
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Yeah I haven't made any contact with her. I can only hope as I get older the girls become more mature or serious. At 22 girls aren't looking too appealing for relationships.

What are girls like between 24 - 30ish?
 
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