Well then, if I understand your point (not sure if I do), we are destined to repeat this cycle of violence over and over. A book or cartoon or video is released in the West. Muslims a thousand miles away are told about said media, and violence results probably with most of them knowing nothing more about it than hearsay, yet alone actually having seen/watched it.
Whilst we interfere in their areas so strongly and the memory of us doing so remains then most likely and there is no reason for them to change then what else is there.
I mentioned before the only way I can see this cycle stopping is for the culture of violent reaction (amongst the more fanatical) to be broken and for this faith/culture to become more tolerant as per other religions/cultures to media and other peoples opinions.
What mechanism for change is there? What stimulus? You are talking about ideals with no method for real-world implementation. Carrot and stick we've used one not the other.
Furthermore, I asked what in this religion/culture instills the desire for violence and indeed supports and propagates it? Because that is essentially what needs to change. It's intriguing to see broadcasts of prominent Muslim leaders seemingly promoting violence amongst their followers where indeed they should be the ones condemning it. Maybe this is one of the areas that needs attention urgently.
Again you ignore the atrocities committed by Christians, the extremist actions by Christians, the fact that in that part of the world the government often uses the mob as a tool, in the same way the Jewish state uses its troops to facilitate its concentration camps (well that's what they are). It's just Muslims to you and never anyone else.
From their perspective why should it change? Why do you think they give a flying **** about what we think and our value system? I don't know how you can not get that part. Do you think the clerics sit down and say "Oh noes we've upset NeilFawcett let's back off on the use of IEDs and molotovs chaps". It's a valid method of control for them and the way they do things to think that the whole world is going to be some hunky-dory democracy is rather naive. Their actions are completely wrong by our ethical assessments in the same way our actions are to them. You consistently seem to think that everyone thinks like us - they don't.