Hardest decision you have ever had to make?

Nah most of my decisions in life are pretty simple, if it doesn't make me happy I change it :)

KaHn
 
Recent ones...

6k payrise and relocation vs the job I enjoy doing.... :confused:
Invited to race in spain but it falls over my gf's (of 3.5yrs) 21st bday and shes ****ed.... :confused:
 
So far in my 21 years, deciding whether to drop pretty much everything I own, leaving all my friends and family behind and move to Scotland. So far, worth it ;)
 
HamZilla said:
Pink or brown
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You mean gay or straight, fighting the truth or repressing it. There really is no reason why any straight man would choose a nice tight along the length, warm nicely lubricated for you convenience front bottom to a clammy, dirty, tight at one spot back door, unless it's your only choice being gay.

Of course everyone has to try it once to find out why your are blessed to be straight, but to keep going back for more. Gay ;)
 
I guess I am lucky that my biggest decisions have been whether to have animals put to sleep or what to do when I left school. I am only 21 though.
 
Biggest decision was giving up on my medical career aspirations. After spending years thinking it was what you wanted, then to arrive and find it's not what you thought. Felt like I was letting everyone else down, but the right decision in the end.
 
I suppose my biggest decision was to stay in Copenhagen after meeting my partner here on a short work contract. I don't really like living here, I find the people and culture very insular and closed. I often dream of moving back to the UK, people to talk to and socialise with, a cosy house in the country, nice english pubs, good british food, a couple of dogs, a car etc. None of which I can have for now. I haven't really made any good friends here, it's really strange because I was always quite good at socialising in the past. Who knows, maybe I've changed?

But we are stuck here for now because her work contract is for the next three years and it is kindof her dream job, so I chose to stick here too.

She's now my fiance' and pregnant too, I'm really looking forward to being a Dad come April :) So even though I have pretty much lost/disconnected completely from my friends and culture after 3 years away and have another 2.5 years to go, I think it is worth it, because she is great.
 
In relation to what i consider a "hard decision" i guess I've not really had to make one yet, the "do i stay or do i leave her" one has come up in the past many years ago but opted with the latter and damn happy for it.

I guess the hardest decision would have been the one to have a child, but to be honest it wasn't all that hard considering the amount of sex involved :p
 
Admiral Huddy said:
I'm a little confused, You started the thread so I assumed you had to make a difficult decision to make or have made?
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You are micro analysing me aren't you? I am only 26 I have not had to make any hard decisions.

Spuj1988 said:
I'm 24 years through life and I haven't had to make a very hard decision yet. However I'm still young and I hope when I am faced with one, I will be strong enough to make the right decison whatever it may be.
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My point exactly :)
 
Putting my cat down. She had cancer and although the vet said that cats usually deal with chemo pretty well but as she was in a bad way I didn't want her to suffer more.
 
The hardest decision I have had to make was whether to TUPE across to another company, where I would have immediately been put on consultation and made redundant a month later, or take a new job in my current employer which would mean relocating from Hampshire to Nottingham. In the end I only had a few hours to make the decision as I only found out at the last minute that the move would be possible.

With the job market at the time I opted for the latter. This meant I could increase my skills in other technologies and has led to more senior positions. It also meant that I could afford to buy my own place and meet some great new people.
 
I consider myself quite fortunate that I've never really had to make any REALLY difficult decisions. Choices on getting engaged, having a child, moving house etc have all felt right and not a tough decision at all.
 
Do I go for the Railgun on Q2DM1...?

Strangely, I couldn't really think of anything that was life changing in any way. I moved here to the US, but that was an easy decision at the time. So far, I'm 38 and haven't had any really hard or unpleasant decisions to make. I dunno....is that good or bad? :o
 
To come out to my family when my Dad is an ex bare fist fighter and I come from a very tough family. Was terrified for about two years thinking of how to do it.
 
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