The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread

Until she had her breakdown we were both very attached and very together.
Anyway....
Like I said, she poured the very last cup of care I had for her away last night.
 
Fuzz said:
It was New Year's Eve, I had previously shelved all my plans because I thought I'd be with her.
I didn't have the horn, I was just feeling lonely.
She stabbed me with it in the end anyway, she contacted me after my text, said she was going somewhere but should be back before midnight and she'd let me know....
So once again she left me hanging, didn't contact me before midnight but had the gall to text me "happy new year" at quarter past twelve.

I asked for that really!
That's it... No more, I have no ounce of care left in me after that.
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Oufff right in the Jimbobs! Time to move on.
 
First time poster in this section but I have been reading it a lot since my split with the ex gf a few month ago.

Last night was awesome but every girl at the house party was in a relationship and everyone was getting all loved up and it just made me really miss my ex even though I finished it with her but still have strong feelings for her now and then :S

Felt awful when I got home today but then opened up the notepad and looked at all the pros/cons I wrote down when I thought about ending it. Its amazing how much the blinkers come on and all that bad stuff you forget. Still miss her but feeling better!

Just venting :)
 
Lighters said:
First time poster in this section but I have been reading it a lot since my split with the ex gf a few month ago.

Last night was awesome but every girl at the house party was in a relationship and everyone was getting all loved up and it just made me really miss my ex even though I finished it with her but still have strong feelings for her now and then :S

Felt awful when I got home today but then opened up the notepad and looked at all the pros/cons I wrote down when I thought about ending it. Its amazing how much the blinkers come on and all that bad stuff you forget. Still miss her but feeling better!

Just venting :)
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Do we get to hear the pros and cons :)
 
Thats asking a lot :), I dont like posting this kinda stuff as it is :P

4 pros - and that was being nice ha - only 1 of them was really a pro and even then it was kind of :S

15 cons - Some petty some big
 
GF of 3 years broke up with me on NYE, after a 4 hour drive to her friends house. Gutted doesn't come close.

Feeling pretty lonely/angry/upset right now. Genuinely believed she was the one too.

:(
 
Robi said:
GF of 3 years broke up with me on NYE, after I drove her all the way to Edinburgh so we could spend the night with her friends. Gutted doesn't come close.

Feeling pretty lonely/angry/upset right now. Genuinely believed she was the one too.

:(
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From the channel islands ?
 
Hmmm so my friend in India was getting worried because I've been single for almost 5 years and she wanted to know when I would get married so she got her mum to speak to an astrologist. They asked for my DOB, my parents' DOB and then told me that I will find 'the one' to marry between January to May 2014. (I think this means engaged, not necessarily married).

I say this is BS :D
 
Stolly said:
Ah ok. Because that would be nucking futs.

So it was a bolt from the blue then ? Rotten timing on her part i must say !
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She ended it in June but asked me back out after a few weeks. It wasn't completely out of the blue as she hasn't been very intimate recently. I always thought we had that special connection and it wouldn't end for good no matter how hard it was/is.

I had an amazing NYE and met some new people which obviously helped. Surrounded by a decent bunch and have work/gym/DJing/reading to keep my mind occupied. Just gutted I can't spend the foreseeable future with her, she is everything I need and literally the carbon copy of me.

Any advice other than keep busy?
 
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