I'm sure there is a lot of advise in here, but I am thinking of creating a new thread, since this and pretty much all the posts in here are talking about how things are going wrong. Would be nice for people to post how they think things should be done to have a healthy relationship. Things they do etc.
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you stop the cd, get on the mic and say ''big round of applause to my ex is now snogging someone else''. then drop a 190bpm techno monster.
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Was dumped on Friday night she says she had too much stress with work and life, she needed to a new direction as her life is going nowhere, she says she still misses me but its the end. I guess I'm not part of that equation, I guess January is the month when women leave men, been with her for 3 years.
So went out Saturday night meet up with a few people drink chat etc... and now going on a date later on tonight, also have contacted an old flame to meet up on Thursday for a bit of hows your father.
Just wondering if this may be a bit soon, but I thought that hey if I'm going to be dumped I should start to find another woman.
Was dumped on Friday night she says she had too much stress with work and life, she needed to a new direction as her life is going nowhere, she says she still misses me but its the end. I guess I'm not part of that equation, I guess January is the month when women leave men, been with her for 3 years.
So went out Saturday night meet up with a few people drink chat etc... and now going on a date later on tonight, also have contacted an old flame to meet up on Thursday for a bit of hows your father.
Just wondering if this may be a bit soon, but I thought that hey if I'm going to be dumped I should start to find another woman.
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That's what I plan, I think doing nothing and think about her is the worse thing a man could do.
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Just be careful the one you broke up doesn't come running back, complications.
I don't think so, for the past month there has been an increase in her texting, which might lead me to think there was someone else, guess i'll find out in a week or 2.
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As with all the above, do what you need to do. But remember, you're likely to have a "rebound" or two before you find someone you truly care about again.
But with said rebounds, just make sure they know where they stand. The last thing you want to do is cause others upset as well!
But with said rebounds, just make sure they know where they stand. The last thing you want to do is cause others upset as well!
What i bolded was a lie. She obviosly just wanted out.
I say this because if she was telling the truth she wouldn't have gone out on the pull and started seeing old bf's for some fun time... she would in fact be concentrating on work and looking forward to future life.
You must not have meant much to her in the end... otherwise she wouldnt have lied so Obviously
don't forget "And i'm telling you this lie so that i can get with him and not look like a ****"
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I think you've misread.
The almost immediate galavanting was done by the OP. No mention of what she's been up to since.
Why are you meeting the other guy? To compare notes?
I have experience of women who like to pretend it's all alright when it's obviously not, as well as them acting like I'm a jealous **** who has trust issues. A one time ****-up... well, that might be forgivable under the right circumstances. This sounds like something different, i.e. a devious person who can't be trusted.