The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread

this thread is epic!!!

Clov!s said:
Why is it men always do the chasing?

I text her, she takes ages to text back, i text back in a few seconds, she leaves it ages to text back, now repeat over a few weeks :(

Think it's time i don't reply when she does and leave it for good. :(
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Lol.... Dude!

1) By instantly texting back you seem desperate
2) Sometimes dont ever reply - This will get her thinking about you, "i wonder when he's going to reply... Actually i do kind of like him, hmm i'm gona text him again".
3) Man up.... Its just a text.

The best advice i can give is to just relax and take things as they come.

Most guys get jealous of their misses, the key to keeping a woman hooked is to keep the jealousy to yourself. Dont be moody about it, dont be angry and ESPECIALLY dont show her it... Jealousy is the most pathetic trait with a guy... Its ok in a woman, just not a man! MAN UP.

This also falls into the category of being a pussy or a little bitch. Contain your feelings to a certain extent, i.e dont be all over her ALL the time. Be nice but also restraint. Show love then let her chase you for it!

Also it seriously helps if you'd have a long term relationship prior... The first relationships are the worse/best
 
[TFU] Thegoon84;25635844 said:
this thread is epic!!!



Lol.... Dude!

1) By instantly texting back you seem desperate
2) Sometimes dont ever reply - This will get her thinking about you, "i wonder when he's going to reply... Actually i do kind of like him, hmm i'm gona text him again".
3) Man up.... Its just a text.

The best advice i can give is to just relax and take things as they come.

Most guys get jealous of their misses, the key to keeping a woman hooked is to keep the jealousy to yourself. Dont be moody about it, dont be angry and ESPECIALLY dont show her it... Jealousy is the most pathetic trait with a guy... Its ok in a woman, just not a man! MAN UP.

This also falls into the category of being a pussy or a little bitch. Contain your feelings to a certain extent, i.e dont be all over her ALL the time. Be nice but also restraint. Show love then let her chase you for it!

Also it seriously helps if you'd have a long term relationship prior... The first relationships are the worse/best
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Thanks :)

I reply fast to everyone i text :p It's just how i am.

Talk of the devil, she has just replied to my text i sent her at 7.04am this morning.... no reply from me :)
 
Suarez7 said:
Jealousy is not ok in a woman imo. It turned my ex into a right *****.
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Jealousy really isn't ok at all, bottle of beer thrown over me for talking to a mate??

******* hose beast!


My fiancé is nowhere near as jealous thankfully, well at least not aggressively so :/
 
It was the sarcasm she'd use to hide it what did my head in, I'd be out shopping with her and see a girl from work and have a quick chat, she'd come out with things like she's nice you can tell you two are close at work with one of those I'm going to kill you smiles whilst saying it.

I also completely changed my body in the near 3 years I was with her and she wasn't supportive at all, telling me I exercised too much, an hour a day lol. She didn't like the fact I'd made a change and looked 10 times better for it and would always say things like I liked the old you. She was simply a jealous person and it's one of the reasons why the relationship went to pot in the end.

I don't often post in this thread but I read it a lot and most of the advice is spot on.
 
Wow you're like a clone or something, I'd tell a story of my day and mention a girl in work by her nickname Kat (Katie), and she started being really off saying I must be really close to her having a pet name for her!

This combined with starting to lift made her crazily paranoid about why I was doing it, not even a case of going to the gym to perve either as I have a home gym ffs. Crazy ******* be crazy yo!


Good lay though :p
 
crunchman said:
Wow you're like a clone or something, I'd tell a story of my day and mention a girl in work by her nickname Kat (Katie), and she started being really off saying I must be really close to her having a pet name for her!

This combined with starting to lift made her crazily paranoid about why I was doing it, not even a case of going to the gym to perve either as I have a home gym ffs. Crazy ******* be crazy yo!


Good lay though :p
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The only part that matters :p
 
Can I get a hug?
(edit: She came back, Women and their *lots of things going on*)

Thanks for the hugz.
 
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I realised this weekend i am the luckiest man alive. OH caught me with a naughty picture on the phone, this one from the picture thread

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She was completely claim and allowed me to explain myself. When she knew it was a generic picture and wasn't another woman sending it to me she asked me what about the picture i liked. I said it was more about the sexy clothes she wears, she then said she'll get some to wear for me :eek::eek:!!!!!

I so want to marry her!!

Also it turns out that she's ok with me looking at porn up to a point. She's knows it natural for a man and will allow it as we don't see each other during the week.
 
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robgmun said:
I realised this weekend i am the luckiest man alive. OH caught me with a naughty picture on the phone, this one from the picture thread

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She was completely claim and allowed me to explain myself. When she knew it was a generic picture and wasn't another woman sending it to me she asked me what about the picture i liked. I said it was more about the sexy clothes she wears, she then said she'll get some to wear for me :eek::eek:!!!!!

I so want to marry her!!

Also it turns out that she's ok with me looking at porn up to a point. She's knows it natural for a man and will allow it as we don't see each other during the week.
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You have, it seems, found the one in 100,000 woman who isn't completely stir crazy. Well done. :)
 
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